Secret to a happy lfe

i think people will be happy and will find all these with contentment in life... =) that is what people say right, that when you are contented with your life, you will find less flaws, you will find less troubles in life, you will be more happy.

Yeah, sometimes if we choose to be, we will be. life is a outward journey, we cannot go back to the past. The moment is only thing we can hold, we can not know what will happen next, so all we can do is to be happy now. Well here is my blog, and it is about life and many moving stories, i want to share any ideas of life with all friends who love to think of the meanings of life:D http://relish-the-moment.blogspot.com/

I agree that to be happy and feel happy is secret of happy life. But while it is true that there are many factors that affect our happiness, I believe there is one secret that determines whether those factors will work for you, and that is the secret to happiness... I think there is a secret to happiness. The secret is gratitude. The secret is appreciation. People often think happiness is based on what you achieve and acquire. Happiness is not a happening; it's a state of mind. You can have everything in the world and still be miserable. Or you can have relatively little and feel unbounded joy. Thanks.

I agree that to be happy and feel happy is secret of happy life. But while it is true that there are many factors that affect our happiness, I believe there is one secret that determines whether those factors will work for you, and that is the secret to happiness... I think there is a secret to happiness. The secret is gratitude. The secret is appreciation. People often think happiness is based on what you achieve and acquire. Happiness is not a happening; it's a state of mind. You can have everything in the world and still be miserable. Or you can have relatively little and feel unbounded joy. Thanks.

You are right - and yes we will be happy. But in life so many ups and downs have to be faced and hence cannot tune ourselves to be the same at all times. And being happy is to make our vicinity will many positive things and happenings nd also should be with positive attitude people so that our thoughts are always focused on that. Happiness I feel is to be contended in what we have.

According to a book that I read in order to be happy you must have three character traits: 1. Optimism which means that you always look at things on the bright side (seeing a glass have full as opposed to half-empty). 2. Hardiness which means that you can cope with whatever challenges or difficulty that life has to offer. 3. Conscientiousness which means you are being involved with the community, conform to the society and being social with other people.