Love, health and money - are they really the 3 mantras of happiness?

@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
April 16, 2010 2:01am CST
My boss says that the happiest people on earth are the ones who are healthy, have family support and have enough money. Love, health and money - we have to have these to be quintessentially happy. But only a few really contemplate this. There are happy people and sad kind of people but I am not going in to that. I think loveless life is most miserable. It can still get us going even without money and health but a complete life will require all three. What do you think?
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@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
16 Apr 10
hmmm i would agree with health and love, but not money. you can be happy without money. unless you are a materialistic person. someone who doesn't have proper communication skills, the inability to interact with other human beings. objects are your friends. But its really more of a satisfaction for your addiction kind of thing, then true happiness.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
In many cases, money is not directly responsible for the happiness. Some people are happy generally and for them happiness is irrespective of all the worldly needs. But they are a countable few. Money is an offshoot of happiness because it helps to get to that place where you cannot get otherwise. Like, nothing satisfies us more than getting our loved ones treated of their illnesses and how on earth you do that without money?
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
16 Apr 10
These are the 3 mantras of happiness, and you have rightly said that a complete life requires all 3. I would extend this a little more to think that the happiness that we feel, also depends on the well being of our loved ones in relation to the 3 mantras. What i mean is, a life with the love of a family indeed gives us the happiness, but if the health, wealth or general well being of the loved is affected, it affects thier happiness, which in turn affects ours.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
16 Apr 10
Very True. Slightly digressing,the ability to be able to make a difference in the lives of others too contributes to our peace of mind and happiness. There are some who have all the required igredients of love, health and wealth and find further happiness (if i may use that term) in giving and trying to make a difference. There are some who aren't to get the right combination of the mantras and find happiness in doing something for the elderly, children and so on.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
Thanks Alok. By health I meant well being of our loved ones also for that affects us more than our ill health. man cannot live alone and I think health is indeed wealth and people who are fit, fine and hearty in old age, with family support and a healthy family and affluence to get to the needs of them and their loved ones are really happy. After living long years of struggle, non-achievements and achievements we have peace, sanity, love what more we can want for!
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
That's so true. That would definitely make me happy if not everybody. Actually it depends on life's goals aspirations and how we perceive life. Generally though, the 3 mantras are necessary in not in the same order.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Apr 10
Hi Mimpi, I feel that contentment needs equal importance and this can be the 4th addition because without contentment you would always feel the need for more and this will interrupt with your peace of mind thereby marring happiness.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
I feel with love and health and money, we are content creatures generally and people who still wish for for will not be happy even with all the world.
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I agree with you kalav. You don't really have to have much of love, health, and money. Even if you have so little of all of these, you can still be happy if you are content with what little you have. I know a lot of people who have little money but are still very happy.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
16 Apr 10
I think good health, both physical and mental is the most important thing to strive for, because our state of health influences our self-love and we have to love ourselves first before we can love or be loved by others. Money follows. If the money comes first, then it is rather useless.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
17 Apr 10
I absolutely agree with you. Mental health is very important and I feel it decides on the course of our lives eventually. I am glad the you have mentioned the importance of money and that it should follow. That's most apt. Money is the offshoot if not the primary object of happiness.
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
For me yes, coz love alone cant make us survive. We wont be healthy if we dont have money to buy some nutritious foods, vitamins and stuff but of course how can we be happy if were not healthy and no one loves us, in short money cant buy happiness, love and health. So that things are very important and should go hand in hand.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
I agree with eiraman. All go hand in hand and it requires a perfect bend of the three to lead a happy life. Life without imperfections is an euphoria but these three can certainly make it easier.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
Thanks for the wonderful addition. Wisdom, justice, peace, wisdom, generosity - ideally the world should go by this. But life has moved beyond theories and sadly so. The value system has changed and people are trying to move above, beyond and upward. This is not the best of times we are into but we have to accept that reality. Life is dependent on materials to survive. We need money for food, shelter and healthcare. These are essentially basic factors that get us going.
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• France
16 Apr 10
je suis assez d'accord avec toi,tu raisonne bien =)
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
17 Apr 10
Hatley, David said that he is in agreement with Mimpi and that her reasoning is good. La bienvenue, David, mais emploient svp l'anglais ici. Did you know that you can use Babel fish to translate from French to English. Then you can reply in English in support of the myLot guidelines. I look forward to your first English response: http://babelfish.yahoo.com/
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Apr 10
you are supposed to respond in English on mylot it is a rule.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
17 Apr 10
Welcome David and thanks for dropping in. Thanks Janet for the translation.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 10
Hi Mimpi I always say that money is not everything but Love is I think if you have Love, true Love, you can overcome the rest Yes it is good to have all 3 but I still believe if you have Love you have everything
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
As I have said earlier, love is one thing that gets me going no matter what and that's the reason Love is topmost on my priority list. Emotional and physical well being is very important because without those I can't really get to that love. Money, ofcourse is important to live a comfortable life. And i have real simple needs in life.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
I agree with you. Without love, what is the point?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
Love less life is living like a cadaver even with all the prosperity on earth.
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• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Hello mimpi, I must agree this three things are very important in our life, love health and money. These are very essential. But I think to top this all is CONTENTMENT. We should be contented with what we have in order for us to be happy. A rich man who can have love and in good health can still be unhappy because he is not contented with what he has and thus do everything to get what he wants even if they hurt other people. But a poor man, who have good health and have love in life can still be happier than the rich man, because he is contented that he is healthy, and he is together with his loved ones, and they can still live each day though they are struggling. Whatever we have is a blessings and is something to be thankful for, if we are contented with the things and people around us we can be very happy. Take care and have fun posting -- red_amethyst
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
17 Apr 10
H ed! Nice to see you drop in after a while. Hope you have been good. I agree with you there. For me contentment comes with the peace, love and support of my near and dear ones and money? It gets me to chase my dreams.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Apr 10
I agree with the words of your boss. three of them would make us happy. one among these three is missing, will make happiness less. but what really matters is money. because we have money, it may be easier for us to have health and love.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
You are right! Money helps us get good health if not love.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I agree with you so much that it will be so happy to with all the love ,health and money together. As wwe alll know that it is the health that makes us stand and do the things that we want. So health must be the first. Then we should have some love. We ned love someone,in return, we still should someone come to love ourselves. Last , with enough money in our hand, I think we will enjoy our life more better.So I agree so much about you question here.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
That's my order as well. For me love can conquer everything but we do need a sound emotional and physical health and ofcourse I need money to live comfortably.
@kaylachan (71590)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Apr 10
I don't think money counts, though it is needed to stay healthy by allowing you to see a doctor, or have food to eat. But, love and health deffently. Because those two things are importnant because without those things number three wouldn't matter because you might not be alive to need it.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
Money counts or else how will you sustain at all. We do not need to be millionaires to be happy but money we all need, don't we?
@vine88 (1031)
• India
16 Apr 10
hi, mim..... i agree with your boss too. But i;d like to say, money , mind and muscle. if you have money you can have better health and make life comfortable. If you have mind you can earn money. If you have muscle, you can work hard. -vine.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Apr 10
That's true. What about love in life. Can anyone really get peace without love in life?
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
17 Apr 10
on my last birthday when i was asked to name 3 wishes i said "happiness, health and wealth for me, my family and friends" with applauses from everyone. looking back now i've not really gone far from what i last wished for. on my next birthday i would still wish for "happiness, health and wealth for me, my family and friends" and that would include all my friends here in myLot and elsewhere.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
That's really sweet of you and thanks a lot. It matters a lot. May you have a blessed life as well.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Apr 10
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
22 Apr 10
Thank you! U too! :)
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
21 Apr 10
HI Mimpi! I know that am late in responding and you have already marked the best response, yet I am attempting. Your boss appears to be a practical and wise person and what he says makes me agree with him. I think everything is essential, be it money, health or love. We cannot make do without either of these three. If one gets plenty of love and s/he is not keeping healthy, s/he would not enjoy being loved. If one has money and health but no one loves him/her, then also life will be miserable. I think all the three things are essential like air and water in our lives.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Apr 10
mimpi1911 oh yes love is needed and health is best too, and just enough to live on is best really, we do not need to be millionaires to be happy. sometimes we must learn to live with something like diabetes and still lead a happy productive life with a little'help from family friends and your medical people
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
Certainly Hatley. Love can heal everything and we do not need to be a millionaire to be happy, Money just for getting us going would do for me. Hope you are fine now.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I think it's very important for you to know what you are really here for, who you are really here for and for whom you do all the things you do. For me, I would say it's love and that would mean my family (or whoever you consider a family in your life whether by blood or not). Since the core of all that I do, I need to ensure that I'm supporting them all the way. For me to be capable of it, I should always keep myself in good health and so they are and in order for us to cope with all the daily expenses to sustain our living, a career should be a good help. It's best to understand the hierarchy of your priorities because sometimes, getting too hooked up on your secondary priorities make you forget the most important people/things to you.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
Thanks for your thoughts there and I kind of agree. I think the basics of living include those three if not in the same order. For me love matters the most but without good health I cannot enjoy it and like all humans i do need money to chase my dreams, to help my loved ones chase theirs.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Apr 10
Hey mimpi! It is so great to have you back again! I think that it is great if you can have all "three" at once, but not everyone can! For me the most important thing to have is good health because if you don't have that it doesn't matter if you have love or money! That is the way I look at it! It is nice to have love and money, but they can't buy good health!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Apr 10
I quite agree with you for without sound mental and physical health we can't really enjoy the love, friendship or the money.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
17 Apr 10
I agree with your boss Mimpi.....Infact if the three criteria go hand in hand and compliment each other ,then your life will be real heaven on earth...But striking a balance when you reach out for your priorities,and maintaining a balance so that the pursuit of each will not lead to sacrifice of other goals is absolutely essential ,if you want to have it all and enjoy it too....
@Candymin (145)
• China
19 Apr 10
Possession of Love,health and money might be the quintessential source of happiness. However, it also depends on individual's contentment about the extent of happiness. I agree with your point of view that a complete life requires all of the three mantras which provide us satisfaction from our heart within both in the field of substance and psyche. God bless all. Happy mylotting!