help.....i can`t stop my mind to not texting him after i said no more:(

Hi anita! Well, I have noticed that you already have feelings for him. I just don't know why you want to avoid him now. Are you already committed to someone else or is he the one who is committed to somebody else? If you think it's wrong to fall for him or communicating with him since you noticed something negative with him, then you have to move on and stick with your decision to avoid him. But if you think that he is a nice guy, no commitment, serious, sincere, then don't be afraid to continue your communications. Know him more and who knows, you may really end up loving each other. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!

who is this guy?did you have a relationship before and broke up?i've experienced that situation back then and i'm usually like you back then.wondering and hating myself for texting him and informing him what's in my life.but that was long ago,and it's really hard for me to let go of him.but then,i focused my mind to other things around me.i mean,there's a lot of things in this world than "him".and if he really don't like you anymore then maybe you have to learn to let go of him.think of other ways to focus on your mind.have a hobby.go out with friends and make new friends from there,maybe you'll meet somebody who'll love you in a way you've never experienced before.life is a long journey.many people want to make friends each day.here in mylot,why can it be a habit for you to discuss on things nothing about him for you to learn to let go and move on with your life.if you think he never liked/loved you anymore,and you feel like he's not interested about you anymore,better stop texting ,calling or thinking of him.maybe in time,you'll be better off without him.it's really hard when you feel something special to a person who never liked you.its like sacrificing or martyrdom.learn new things,have something that will free your mind to just think of him.for now,i myself have moved on for not texting him.i'm already used to the fact that we were really not meant to be.so it's better to be separate lives.

why you keep on controlling your feelings towards him? maybe you feel something different in your situation., in your case, your the one who feel in love with this person but you are trying to cover your feelings because you know that it won't worked out. since you already knew his priorities in life. even-though your heart longing for him but in your mind telling to stop it. try to overcome your heart over your mind.

Did you break up with him? Oh! He must be so special to you that your heart is still wanting him near. If you really don't want to communicate with him, better delete his number in your phone (but what if you've memorized the digits? - still no effect)... I've asked that to myself also before but in due time, I was able to hold my fingers from pressing my ex-lover's 11-digit numbers....Yeah, but it took time for me to have done it successfully.

i know how hard it is to tell yourself what to feel but sometimes you just have to. if you really don't want to text him anymore then maybe you need to erase his phone number or you can even block his number if your phone has that functionality. try to turn off your phone for a day and focus on other things that matters. if you can you can change your number, it worked for me.

i think you still love that guy sis.. even your mind telling you not to text him, your heart still responded that you love him and you still miss him even you dont want to text him anymone

anitarei321, Honestly, I just hope that you will not find me blunt and overly direct but I feel that it is apt for me to speak it from a more direct perspective for you. In your case, I wonder if you realized that it's hard for you to let go because you never did let go in the first place - even if you think you did. Time doesn't really heal wounds - what time does is to coerce you into resigning to fate and get used to your situation. Recovery is by choice and quiet reflection, often spurred from personal enlightenment. Sometimes, I find it incredible when people refuse to accept that their relationship is beyond recovery that their other half wants out and they will find all sorts of ways and methods to retain them, like you. So, I hope that you are seeing the picture here and that you will only be hurting yourself further in the process of your denial to reality. Take care and have a nice day.

Of course you can if you put your mind to it. But I guess you love the person. If there is nothing wrong with it, why deprive yourself? But if it is for the good, I think you need to brace yourself not to do the things that would jeopardize you. It's really up to you anitarei.

well what you need to do is reassure yourself that he probably isnt thinking aboutyou if he was he would be texting you all the time. The best thing i can suggest is keep busy or even get some mates round and get them to have your phone so you cannot text.

its ok he will forgive you hopefully and he will be the one texting you trust me or if he is like one of those men who don't really give a crap about people then you just messed up something good just kidding haha just play music or something to get your mind off him do stuff you enjoy with out anybody else xD

Because your feeling still there,the more you wanted to forget him and resists your feeling the more it grows and urge you doing things for him , so the best thing you can do to let your feeling flow till you feel you're getting tired of it,don't resist it,just go with it flow,just avoid seeing him, but don't force yourself to stop thinking about him,focus yourself to something and just let the feeling takes place,stay cool,and normal.Let your own feeling gets tired thinking and loving him.Because feeling can be tiring too. ..Resisting is not the solution, you will be end up frustrated..Let your feeling subsided itself.

Hi Anita, Once the arrow is left from the bow,there is no way that you can take that back.You see,how hard you hit that friend.Would you please let me know who the hell only you are to stop a relationship which involves two persons.Rage,anger,quarrel?Do you really think you can get the same person back in your life again that was innocent and careful about you?And why do you repent when you can't control a crazy feat of anger?Ok,enough of scolding!Now,don't send sms.Go straight to him and say sorry looking straight to his eyes.And always keep a part of your mind aside to control your inconsistent nature. Thanks, Happy MyLotting!!

Probably you should relax a bit. Try to get yourself busy. Who knows, your absence might make him wonder. He might become curious as to why you have not "bugged" or contacted him. Show him you can do without him. =)

who is he? i think you have feelings for him

You can when you want to, maybe its hard but its not impossible if you just want it truely.

hai..if i were u then i will send a text "sorry o o"... ^ U