According to your experience,which type of people are hard to deal with ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
April 16, 2010 11:05am CST
We are all different kinds of people and came from different background and with different personality.That's why conflicts will always happen.However,there are some kinds of people you will find it difficult to deal with.You can share this with us in mylot and I am sure not everyone will be the same.Some people can get along with many different kinds of people but some may have diffucluties in dealing with lots of people.Maybe it is your peoblem but not other's problem.Maybe it is your nice personality that you will be able to deal with many kinds of people.Qhatever it it,share us and enrich all the people in mylot.
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@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I have been a teacher for more than six years and the kind of people I have the greatest difficulty with, are people with inferiority complex; specifically the kind that is trying to be superior. They are the type with the greatest pride and less to be teachable. They tend to control everybody (including me) with all kinds of arguments and manipulations. I just hate this crowd but nonetheless they are important for the development of myself and my character.
@wookieekyut (673)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
It is hard for me to deal with people who do not listen. They think they already know everything. Sometimes we have to listen for what we know might not be the best and the right.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Apr 10
I'm lucky to be able to deal with most different kinds of people. However, I can think of one type of person that I don't have an easy time getting along with. These people are the ones that are trying to look like they are better than everyone else. An example of this kind of person is the ones that think that they need the best car, the best house, send their children to the best private schools. My family and myself are relatively simple people and this works out very well for us. We won't be in debt up to our eyeballs until the day that we die and we are very happy with where we are in our lives.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
For me the personality of moody type of person because they want that they are please at first.
@langjipingzong (981)
• China
17 Apr 10
Hi,there.As to me ,I think the reserved person are hard to deal with.Since he/she always keeps silent,it's difficult for me to know what he/she is thinking.What's more,the silent seldom shows his/her emotions.Just thinking,when we talk wiht other loudly,while he/she just keeps quiet and listens to others,oh,everytime I meet these types I feel uneasy cause when I see his/her expressions I do feel that he/she is laughing at me.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
17 Apr 10
You hit the nail, friend. People with an introvert characteristic are really hard to deal with since we can't easily get a word out of their mouth. Mostly, they just keep silent and prefer to play the role as a good listener, which i appreciate greatly especially when i need to pour out all my sorrows and want someone to listen. But sometimes we want to listen to their ideas too. But their remaining silent just makes us feel uneasy. I find myself desperate to try to read what's in their mind.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
16 Apr 10
Hi Wildlittlefan, Generally, I am a nice guy and try to be humble which I guess makes me look weak and stupid. I have lowered myself and worked in such places as housekeeping and laundry as I work to get my stories published and have a better future, although I have a college degree. So I have encountered the kind of people that are hard for me to deal with, those who don't have much intelligence and "experience" who think they are smarter than me. When I speak, they don't listen. When I speak, people butt in.
For example, at the amusement park where I worked, this coworker from Romania knew I had experience with computers. For whatever reason though, she approached me and asked what she should do since she gave her money to this guy she'd met so he could order her a computer. He was from India and he took her money and used his credit card to order her a computer. Well, she was leaving in a couple of weeks and the computer hadn't come yet. As I gave her some advice on what to do such as going to personnell, and tracking the order, someone butted in and told her that wasn't good advice. Well, that was an argument. Not wanting to appear like a know-it-all, I toned down my insistence yet, reminded her to at least go to personnell to check on things. Turns out, she didn't follow my advice. She was confident he had done the right thing. Weeks later back in Romania, she emailed me because she didn't get her computer yet. She also emailed our boss who ignored her emails. Moral of the story, she didn't get her computer, and the guy from India never answered his phone nor email. So she was out of nearly $1,000. I still fume when I think of it. And there have been other times when my advice seemed to be a joke to others.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
17 Apr 10
Hey Rock,I understand your feeling that your advice hasn'y been accepted by this girl and end up she's the one who lost her money and wasted her times.Well,there are times we will do our best to help others,but if they don't want to take our advice and end up experience problems,that may be a good lesson for them.People have their own choice and they are responsible for every decision and step they make.We surely want to help others,but since everyone has to make their own decision,we can only just respect their choice even the result will never be a good one.I think you have done your best in this case anyway.Relax and enjoy your time again.Have agood day in mylot.^_^
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
17 Apr 10
Three kinds of people are difficult for me to deal with. The first type is those selfish ones. This kind of people like to be self-centered whatever situation they are in. They seldom care about other people's feelings. Whatever they do, they do it for the sake of their own interest. Second is the bad-tempered type. A little misunderstanding may lead to their anger and roaring with rage. So i have to be extremely careful not to irritate them in any way, which makes me stressed out. The third is the hypocritical type. If the former two types can be said difficult to cope with, then this type can be called the most horrible type. They smile to you on the surface, but you'll never know what's really in their mind. Perhaps they are thinking of some malicious schemes against you. It's better to be very prudent in dealing with the last type.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I know it. The people who are hard to get along with are the envious type of people, those who are very narrow-minded they will judge you based on their limited minds. These people will always see the bad side of others, they will try to put down others for this is the only way they can elevate themselves. They also believe that they are better than everyone else so whenever someone does something good, they will automatically pull her down because they are envious. They will tell on you, watch your every move and destroy you when they see even just a bit of error.
@yoursjannat (839)
• India
16 Apr 10
The kind of person who are confused about what they should do.Mind this Dangerous kind because out of confusion they can even kill you-either physically or mentally!!!
@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
Of all people I'm having hard time dealing with people who doesn't show open mindness, those people who would just believe of what he believes in no matter how you prove them wrong...
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
16 Apr 10
i sometimes wonder as to how are we managing with some unique people in the society.
We come across several types of people with who we have to move even if we do not like them - this happens mostly at the working place.
Yes,I feel very very difficult to move with eccentric people. A different type who are very difficult to-handle.
@bestylish (922)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
People who thinks that they are right eventhough they're wrong. it's difficult to argue with someone like that. A person who keeps on insisting something that most people disapprove.
@sallyj (1225)
• United States
17 Apr 10
I have a hard time with people who talk about others they see in a professional job.
I have two sister-in-laws who have worked in the health profession and tell about their encounters.
I see a doctor-that is between the 3 of us (me, dr, nurse)and no one else!!!!!
@preciousnic (59)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
IN my experience the type of people that hard to deal with is the people that what they want they get.its really hard to deal with them.You cannot share your own opinion to them because only there opinion is all they want.