Hello Everyone!

Welcome back! I'd been getting a bit concerned that you were gone for so long. Congrats on the divorce and new love - that's the way to do it, ya know, move out THEN meet the nice guy!

It's more expensive in CA. lol But I'm ready to start filling out papers. Don't think I'm going to get much cooperation, he keeps trying to change my mind. Best of luck with your new life!!!

Hi! Welcome back my friend! It is great to see you online again. That is great that you filed for divorce since you were not happy being with your husband and hope this new man loves you and treats you better and takes good care of you. That is very good advice that you gave. Hope to see you online when you can.

Good for you! I truly hope things work out for you! It's a tough decision....but I know how you feel. When I filed I felt like the weight of the world was lifted off my shoulder....best of luck to you!

Hello Elusive, glad you hear you have internet again. We depend on it so much these days. My ex filed because I did not want to pay the cost too, but it was the best thing he did for me. I met another guy also, and he has treated me so much better than the ex. We have been married a fast 17 years now and I could care less about my ex, in fact, wish I had never met him. I hope this new love is the same for you as what I experienced and that you will be happy together for many years to come.

I am really happy for you I hope everything goses good for you!!! cd

When I seen your name in my email I thought I hope its not bad news, you have had more then your share recently. I can "hear" the excitement in your words. I am so happy for you, you deserve it. I so want to fall in love again, I miss it. I do wish you all the best. Also welcome back to cyberworld-we at mylot have missed you. your gonna have to keep us informed with how things are going so we can cheer for you. Its always nice to share the good news. Take care, be happy.

Hi! Glad to see you back. I hope you remain as happy as you seem right now. You deserve to be happy.

Hi Elusive That is wonderful and it sounds like you are on the right road now I wish you happiness as you certainly deserve it Big Hugs

Good luck to you on your new start. It is sometimes hard to embrace the new moments in life, but love is always healing.

It is great to see you back with us again ElusiveButterfly! So you are in love...That’s fantastic, great news! It goes to show that you never know what’s around the corner and every cloud has a silver lining and all that...I can read your joy in your discussion (LOL)!Enjoy it, this is a very special time for you!

Hey...It's great that you finally found the right person, you are very lucky..Great going, I'm sure you are enjoying ur life now to the fullest, congratzz and great that you got back to internet.. Welcome back :)

In few days ,i have seen many guys puzzled in divorce ,i feel sad for them .How splendid love is. i want to share some good sentence With you .it is in the world of love ,no one indebted for others ,while many people don't know how to cherish others .if we can only weeping With the smile rather than repenting With the cry .how beautiful words.

Very happy that you've found someone new! Congrats for getting out of a relationship that wasn't for you and moving on! Takes a very good and strong-willed person to do that. :) Keep us posted and have a good day.

Hon, I wish you well, I know you said it needed to be done. My only question is whether or not this head over heels thing is too fast or not. However, it is your own life, and I did some head over heels myself as a widow. Hugs to you, keep us up to date with your happenings.

Well, good for you. Hope it's all you want it to be.

hi I wondered where you were elusivebutterfly. I am glad that you have filed for divorce, Kind of nice too that You have met a wonderful man. We all need to love and be loved. Is life now better for you? Yes much good can come out of a bad situation indeed. what is the situation with your two sons now? is it better, hope so hugs from hatley.

It's great when something good comes out of a bad situation. I am very pleased for you and I include this link that isn't connected...but you do seem to like butterflies so I hope the pics make you gasp with wonder like I did when I saw them. Enjoy my friend. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/sci/tech/8709314.stm

I hope you'll do well with your new husband.