i would like to be a boy :(( but ..

Funny thing is that I'm a guy, and I love wearing make-up, and it takes me about 3 hours(literally) to do my hair. But I have NO INTENTION or even WANT to be a girl. People just need to find out who they are, and just work with it to do all they can. Everyone should love themselves, and everyone else, or there's no way in Hell that we can ever reach world peace (even though we know that's not going to be anytime soon, we should try and start now!).

Lesbian gay ,transvestie or any thing I would like to remain a man ! The freedom that a men enjoys and the power of being a man and fearless journey of life is only the fate of man Woman on the other hand have to constantly live under the fear of being assaulted by a MAN this is a fact The pain of being a woman an only be understood by a woman Man cannot and shall not understand her ! I would vote for being a man what ever the other temptations there be for being a woman Three cheers for being a man!!!

Because your Mom wants you too. That is the reason for your not wanting too. It is normal that mothers and daughters want different things. I wanted to be a boy, because that made me feel more secure. I fought like a boy and later in life I worked like a man. I still love wearing mens cloths. But there is nothing Lesbian about me. I am hetro. I sometimes like to look feminine, but I feel stronger not too. I feel safer. Weird probably. But working like a man, has brought me to the place where I am at 43. I have back problems, had my first operation when I was 31. At 41 I lost my job because my back problems came back and I could not walk. So, what did it bring me wanting to be a boy? Not much actually, except for a bad back. I am learning to except myself for what I am, a women. Better late than never. As for the love yourself bit. It is true. If you don't respect yourself, why should anyone else??? If you don't love yourself, why expect anyone else to love you??? You don't love yourself, it is telling others you are not worth loving. If you can't love yourself, how can you love someone else? I used to think like you. I understand. But, I have learned to see things different. That is my opinion, Take care.

Hello Gedix, There is nothing wrong with wanting to be the opposite gender. I am in the very same shoes that you are. There is no real reason that I wish to be male. I just think that I would feel more comfortable- I feel comfort just thinking about it and what it would be like. But there is nothing wrong with loving yourself now even if you are not a boy. It will help you get through the day better. Good luck, Valenas

we are all girls in the family and we have only one guys at home which is my dad. I really wanted to be a man when having a chance to be born again..but i can't help myself now., we are growing now, and all of us kids now grew beautiful and attractive., If all of us will be going to marry, how could we preserve our surname..