cant say no?????????
By Abhiillusion
@Abhiillusion (69)
India
April 17, 2010 2:27am CST
u know sometimes it becomes too much difficult to say no to some people you know that it waill taht that person thats why you will feel bad about it,there is no reson somtimes you dont want to be with someone in that case what will you do when the last thing you want to say is no more???
5 responses
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
In my case ...that's is my problem ever since Im having a hard time saying no to friends who ask favors, same as yours Im afraid that they will fill bad, or at the back of my mind im thinking maybe i'm their last option so I dont wan't to let them down.
@common_man (1799)
• India
17 Apr 10
Hi friend,
One must learn to say "NO" when he/she desires to say so. Many time saying "No" will be beneficial too! for example, saying "NO" to close friend, when he is trying to make you smoke or drink. saying "No" to your boss when you are sure, you will not be able to do the job he is asking you to do, and accepting job may do mor harm to you.
I can sy "No" at appropriate time to anybody.
@missweety (626)
• Latvia
18 Apr 10
Hello! I always try to say to people the right and correct things. If there is something that I know will hurt them, I try to say it softer, but I always try to say to them if they don't know and it could be important to them to know that. I have a friend that don't tell me because she doesn't want me to be hurt and then it hurts even more because my friend knew it and didn't tell me. So try to be in their situation, would you e happy if they wouldn't tell you important things just because it could hurt you? I know that people appreciate my correctness towards them. Happy mylotting!
@Abhiillusion (69)
• India
20 Apr 10
good thing you have said my friend coz it really hurts when the people you know and care dont correct you.