i feel so lonely;'c
By princess8881
@princess8881 (1630)
South Korea
April 17, 2010 11:34am CST
after moving out to this new country i dont really have friends that i can see often.. i have 1friend but we can hardly meet each other too..
i been here for two years..but still i dont have lots of friends.. my boyfriend.. were also having a lot of fight this fast few days..my parents is not here with me and i feel so alone:'c
8 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
18 Apr 10
yeah i could imgine being hard, need to try to meet new people get yourself into something and meet people that way. i know it might be hard.
good luck
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
18 Apr 10
not me. but i could igmine moving to whole different country,
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
You are homesick because Korea is very different here in the Philippines. Your left your life here and you had a hard time adjusting in new country. There culture and attitude is different with us. I think sooner or later you can fit in and you going to get used to it.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
You should try and go out more often like see if there are alot of youngsters like you along the neighborhood then try to be friendly to them so that you will have new friends with you. Its going to be really boring if you dont have a pool of friends with you , like to have someone to talk to share your day with something like that. Or if you want to you can just spend your day in mylot too i mean to share ideas with friends and other people around here too
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Well then they are missing alot by not having princess in their lives. I believe your a good friend to have and thats why im enjoying my time reading and sharing my thoughts with you too. You should try to reach out whenever you can or have the opportunity.Have a great day and happy mylotting to you my friend
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Apr 10
yeah i love my lot... they are here when i have some questions... but to my new place oh gosh you can hardly see your neighbor here the streets are really clean..they are so hard working..i dont know but most of all they are just sleeping for 4hrs and go to work again..except the students and the old ones...
@damsel_prerna (863)
• India
17 Apr 10
Hi Princess,
I can totally understand. When i had shifted to a new city i had felt the same. But you have shifted to another country. Its difficult but i know as time passes you will make good friends there.
By the way, Where have you shifted?
Thanks.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Apr 10
from philippines to south korea.. i dont know i been here for two years,, i dont understand why i cant have a friend i can trust..maybe i was with my bf all this time... and i dont have time to have friends..
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
17 Apr 10
Hello friend, thank you for sharing this about you. You know, I understand you and can see how things may feel so alone. You are very brave to have moved and build your life. I think if you have many fights with your boy friend is not good for you and you need to move on from that relationship. You want to be brave and always see things positively. Make friends with quality people, think of the things you like to do and find a way to build a social circle in that are you like to enjoy. Well if it means anything for you. We sure can be friends and talk here all the time :)
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
18 Apr 10
oh I know what you mean, have to be careful always, but don't be afraid to learn to read people and socialize. I see you are home sick and is normal.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Apr 10
I dont know its hard for me to build trust to other person...but i do want to make a lot of friends.. and yeah i think ican improve our relationship me and my boyfriend...
i dont know but i been here for 2years and i really miss philippines..
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Apr 10
do you think so? that i am really in a wrong place?hmhmm well come to think of it... i dont know... but you gave me some idea not to wonder why i am feeling like this..thank you...:)
@confident_06 (2)
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18 Apr 10
everybody all have their tough thing,I guess,like me,I have to work and also have to say goodbye to my class and my friends,yes,i am gonna graduate this year,i have to face the new environment,lots of unknow thing,i just want to say,all have their difficult,please comfort yourself you are no alone.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Apr 10
yeah thanks you very much...i know each of us has their own problem maybe i was just over reacting... feel lonely even though i dont have too
@ayanjo2006 (53)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Sad to hear that..I think you need to do something in order for you to feel happy..
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I guess the situation invites you to learn the art of enjoying solitude. Christians (particularly ROman Catholics) consider that a grace for prayer. God invites you to take him in as your new best friend, someone who will not abandon you until you abandom him. Not even that can take you permanently away from him.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
17 Apr 10
Yeah i just have HIM..I dpo pray always... evry seconds when i habe this feeling... thanks for that.. but i dont know... im not lossing faith im also catholic...but i cant help being like this//;'c