Break up - How do you cope with it ??

Malaysia
April 17, 2010 3:42pm CST
Guys...what is your most painful break up in relationship ? What did you do and how did you cope with it ??
3 responses
@champan (513)
• Argentina
17 Apr 10
You cant cope in a day or a week with it ( if it was really important) There are few effective things to do it that way. I think relax, and TIME, are the most important ones. You have to try yo enjoy things as much as you can. And if you have free time, try to think things, a bit , i would say its more to improve.
• Malaysia
18 Apr 10
did you have a painful breakup champan ?
@champan (513)
• Argentina
18 Apr 10
Yes... and i dont tell you that i dont miss that person. But i dont feel sad, annoyed or anything like that, when i talk to her now.
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Coping effectively with breakup largely depends on the reason for the breakup. Did you have to leave her/him, or vice versa? Or both of you simply lost it? So what's the situation really? Generally, it would be easier if you change your thinking to this: "Whew, glad we got to end it. At least I know early on that will not work between us. So I can move on now to better relationships." Then move on.
• Malaysia
18 Apr 10
i would assumed that hows you dealt with you break up.
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Let time heal the wound for you. Think of the good times and not the bad and be grateful for that person for giving the chance to love each other even for a while. Learn from what has happened, even though it hurts you must accept the fact that it is over. Move on and face every morrow that somewhere there is someone who is ready to share again the life with you.