how will you get through the first week of a break up?
By leniesoriano
@leniesoriano (20)
Philippines
4 responses
@yoursjannat (839)
• India
18 Apr 10
First buy a bucket to hold the water that comes out periodically off your eyes.Put a photo of your deity every here and there in your room so that you can pray to Him that your boy/girlfriend comes back to again.Then remember all those mistakes that you've probably done for which the relation leads to a break up and then blame yourself hard.Try to catch up all possible addiction like smoking,drinking,etc.Finally when you are convinced that he/she is not going to get back,try to make more friends and chat with them happily and then try to flirt with others giving them clearly a message that you need someone to get married and to live happily in life.O!well,let me be informed when you are done!
@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
18 Apr 10
hey nice suggestion... but give me a suggestion if i want to forget someone and i m not having success...
@yoursjannat (839)
• India
18 Apr 10
First,stop asking for help and stop telling that you're not having success.Those words really have negative impact on your mind.Rather think that you're yet a mentally stable person considering your situation.You're not doing anything that others do after a break up.You're spending time with MyLot so that people like us get valuable suggestions from you.You're the person who is going to tell us how to deal with the consequences of a negative event.You've not lost anybody because the person wasn't present in your life before you even met.And who can say that the next person isn't going to stay with you for life?So my advice is to stop moaning and try to look for a person who really reciprocates your love.Everybody on earth has the capability to reciprocate your love the same way you want.The point is that you've not met the right person.The right person is always the last person you fall in love with and get married.So why so worried?Just be as you were as before and don't wait for anybody.He/she will seek you or better even you may not notice how you may fall in love and get married.
Thanks,
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@catycat1985 (188)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
Theres no easy wya to mend a broken heart and healing does not just happen overnight, you really have to mend and air out the pain if necessary. I remember my times when i had my first heartbroken experience, i was at the office and i just cried and cried and cried, of course its so shameful but i really cant help it, i need to be open so that i couldn feel the pain, you know i used like 4 rolls of our tissues at the office but i really did not care at all, the worst part was when i go home and founf myself alone because i was away from my parents, i have no one to talk to and it really makes me insane and crazy but after a week of being so miserable i try to attend reflections and you know share with them all those painful memories and it really helps. Now when i reminisce those memories i realized he was not after all worth of those tears and he does not deserves all my pain. But it heps me a lot. I became a better woman now.
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Accept the fact that the relationship is over. Do not wallow in grief but be grateful that you have learned to love and be loved. Look forward to future relationships and learn from the past but do not let the past dictate your future because the past will not define as to who you are. Thank your former lover for the chance. Smile - a lot. If you are planning to do an activity do them. Be with your family and friends. Do not shun the world. Keep the love letters because they are a part of your history. Live the good life. Sing no sad songs.
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
10 May 10
My advice to you is not to stay alone at home.Remember all the friends you have had before your relation-call them and let them take you somewhere out.I am sure that while talking and having fun you will forget about the break up and the tears.This is the easiest way for me!
