Would you give the password of your sns account to your bf/gf?
By Urmyonly1
@Urmyonly1 (67)
April 19, 2010 12:51am CST
Hi friends! Have you experienced this or would you let it happen? If your boyfriend/girlfriend ask for the password of your sns(social networking site) account, would you give it? I have already experienced this, my girlfriend asked for the password of my sns(social networking site) account and since I love her, I gave it willfully. Actually I have not deleted anything there, I just gave her the password. She checked my messages, and she found out that I have sent messages to several girls that was dated when I haven't known her yet. I was single and not in a relationship that time, so I guess, there's nothing wrong if I send a message to other girls, since I haven't knew her yet that time. But when I found her, I was really been faithful to her. She actually felt bad and was been cold to me that time. Do you think I was wrong that I have entrusted her my password? How about you, would you give your password of your sns account to your boyfriend/girlfriend? It will be nice to know your answer. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
17 responses
@zairahles07 (22)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I don't give my sns account to my partner right away, I only give it to her if we reach at least 5 months. The reason why is because if you give it right away and you break up sooner, there is a chance that he/she will get angry because of the break up and may result wreaking havoc on your sns account. You must know first if you can trust your partner
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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20 Apr 10
Hi zairahles! So you are just being cautious and you want to make sure first that you can really trust your partner. Well, I just hope it will not cause an argument between the two of you. Good luck. Thank you for answering. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I will just give my password of my SNS account to my girl friend. I think it will be equal to have her password of her SNS account.For me, in my area, we usually chat with our friends by qq,which is another chatting tool like the MSN, which is so popular in China now. The password of my qq is remembered by my girl friend, at the same time, I still have the password of hers.I think it is OK for me to do so,which can do us a lot of conveniet to our daily life,i think.
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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20 Apr 10
Hi monkeylong! It's good that you have entrusted your passwords to each other. By doing that, assurance of being faithful to each other will be maintained. It's really comfortable for both of you. Thank you for answering. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@Dumpertaker (1187)
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19 Apr 10
I would not give my password to my Cuddle Bunny, and at the same time I would not want to know her password either, they are supposed to be secret....also we trust each other so there is no need for access to each other's accounts.
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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19 Apr 10
Hi dumper! Wow, what a term of your endearment to her, Cuddle Bunny, haha, that's nice! Yes, it can be kept as private and you should just trust each other. Trust is really important in a relationship. Thank you for answering. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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19 Apr 10
Hi caliya! Yes, coz I really love her and she's really my only one, that's why any request she ask me, I always granted it. I appreciate your compliment. Thank you again for answering. Have a great day and happy myLotting! (",)
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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19 Apr 10
Hi acey! Yes, our partner can read all the messages and there's nothing wrong about that. But if he/she will send or reply messages pretending that I am him/her, than will not be good already. Trust is really important in a relationship. Thank you for answering. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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19 Apr 10
Hi putoboi! Yes, giving your password just means that you really love your partner and you are not hiding anything from him/her. Thank you for answering. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@replyashu (745)
• India
19 Apr 10
no way i never give out my password to any one
i am from it field and know the destructive consequences of security breach...
enjoy
TATA
@Urmyonly1 (67)
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19 Apr 10
Hi reply! Yes, it may always lead to negative things and insecurities. It's really up to you if you will let her know your password or not. Thank you for your answer. Have a great day! Happy myLotting! (",)
@tessah (6617)
• United States
20 Apr 10
my boyfriend has access to all my accounts and passwords.. just simply because he might need to log onto something for me, or for himself that he wants/needs. when i had to change my passwords, i gave him the new ones. i also have his for the same reason. i see no point in keeping these things all "private" like i have something to hide.. cause i dont, nor does he.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Yes, of course. I have got nothing to hide from my partner so I would give her my social networking password. in fact, she knows the majority of my accounts. :) it's good to be very open to your hubby/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend. good thing, my partner is also very open to me... i know the passwords of her accounts(friendster, facebook, gmail, blogsites and others).. we even exhchange mobile phones at times...
@verabear (796)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I think that it was good for you to feel trusting enough to give her your password, I hope she takes it as you not having anything to hide from her, despite of the messages she found there. I have given my password to the bf because I had him check something before, but I know he probably doesn't remember it anymore and wouldn't go in and snoop around. Same with me. He's given me his Facebook password because he wanted me to login whenever there's a rare item in Happy Aquarium to grab, lol. And I don't abuse that. It all really depends on the kind of relationship you have with your partner, but it shoulnd't be a requirement to have each others' passwords.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
19 Apr 10
If my boyfriend asked for my Social network passwords, I would feel that he doesn't trust me, and he wants to research on me. That's why I would feel offended and wouldn't show him the passwords, as I need my own space too. I wouldn't give them even if he didn't ask, as passwords aren't something to share.
@b3ginn3r (221)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I won't give it to her unless she asks me to. I don't have anything to hide to my partner, so as you my friend, and what everyone in a relationship should be. But it is wrong for her to get angry over things like those stated by you. I would explain to her the exact reason why she shouldn't be angry, that is, just look on the date and the date we met. During those times, you're a free man, you're single, there's nothing wrong about sending messages or even flirting with girls. YOU ARE SINGLE! and being single means FREEDOM.
@coolsharvan (144)
• India
20 Apr 10
It proves what a good person u r
It was defintely not wrong abt givin u'r password to u'r girlfriend
Now her love and respect for u would have certainly increased
@jxndwl (29)
• China
20 Apr 10
Hello!I have a very same experience with you! I gave my boyfriend my password but he didn't give me his. He is very suspicious. He login my account. If he find a boy want to talk with me first, he will talk with him under my name. Then he will have a bee in his bonnet and have a crazy quarrel with me. In fact, there is nothing. Later I changed my password. I think you should not give the password to your girlfriend in order to be good of your love. Talk with your girlfriend and say this problem to her. I think she can understand you.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
19 Apr 10
I don't know about that unless I'm certain he can be trusted. He would be welcome to see what I'm writing though. I'd be more likely to share it with a husband than someone whose just a bf but really there isn't any reason for them to have it.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
LOL, that's funny. Well of course she would feel bad. I'm sure you didn't exactly tell her in detail about your past relationships, and why should you? Besides, it's only normal for most girls to get stung about the past. I used to be like that. I hated seeing messages from my boyfriend's ex gf's or the girls he was dating, so i tried to ignore them, and not open them. I know I'd give myself a hard time if I did. Or sometimes it would take so much effort to think to myself, "I'm the girlfriend now, not her."
Anyway, yeah, I give my password to my bf's. I want to show them that I'm not doing anything funny or anything stupid, and they shouldn't feel like I am. In the same way, when I give out that password, I expect from them not to mind my business or get ticked off because I'm messaging some guy. If he trusts me, then he better not think that I'm doing anything else. Besides, If I did do something suspicious, I'd let him find out anyway, and not sneak behind his back. Otherwise, if he really doesn't want to get hurt, I compromise by getting my passwords changed, and unless he can be mature enough to give me space and let me contact my friends, there's no way I'm giving him the password again.
@pwang41 (134)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
it was good that you have shared to her the your password. it just shows that you are not hiding something from her. you should make her understand that those messages were made way before you have been together. in my case it would depend if i would give my password to my boyfriend if i have one because the passwords are quite personal to me but if it would show how much i love and trust him then i would give it. i won't allow it to start an argument between us. before i would give the password i would first make him understand that he would find messages that may upset him but were already made before so that conflicts won't arise.