Why people like slim girl/women?

@vine88 (1031)
India
April 19, 2010 3:42am CST
From my previous discussion, about a beautiful girl, most of the people said, they like slim girl/women. Most of the people don't like fat girl or women. Fat girls also know this. They were very in tense, they first aim in life to weightless. Because they know people like slim girls. What is the secret in Slim girl? Do people really finds pleasure in such bodies. They are interested in them. In films also there are not any Fat Heroine. They are all slim.? Tell me why do you like slim Girl?
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@marguicha (222999)
• Chile
19 Apr 10
All this about slim girls is an artificial taste that is probably made by the haute couture. But before that, Holliwood made the big breas* ted woman be the most beautiful. Films are not real life. If every man was interested in slim girls, overweight women would not marry. They do. And so do overweight men. But I think we should slim down (a bit) for health reasons, not for looks.
@marguicha (222999)
• Chile
19 Apr 10
Growing men, that is tenagers, while they are insecure, will go for imitating. Real men don´t do that. And women (slim and fat, small sized or big, want a man in their lives.. I think all this is just a growing stage, It is true that sometimes men (and women) don´t leave this childish behaviour. Most of the divorces come from this. The people marry a body and forget that the importance is inside it. Bodies age, souls get wiser.
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
19 Apr 10
Quite simple really Jesus is slim Adam and Eve were slim We are all born slim. Being fat is not natural and unhealthy. Unfortunately, people today cannot resist junk food, and worse, they bring up their kids on junk food. So today, you have a lot of fat kids. People have the free choice to be fat. And I have the free choice not to like fat people.
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@marguicha (222999)
• Chile
19 Apr 10
Hw do you know Adam and Eve were slim? And Jesus? You know a lot!!!
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
19 Apr 10
Slim girls and women are easy to handle while we are making love with them. Also they look bit good and so most of them prefer slim girls as life partners and also in movies. Cheers
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@marguicha (222999)
• Chile
19 Apr 10
I have been in this world for almost 65 years and never knew that women were handled when they made love. Live to learn.. I didn´t even know that women should be handled at all, as though they were a cup. As for me and my experience in life (small as it is) I think that weight is not than important at the time of getting a life partner. There are other qualities that are more important ( in men and women). I was married for almost 40 years to a very handsome man. I was a brute: preferred his generosity and wisdom to his looks. Take care!
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@newtalent (1112)
• United States
19 Apr 10
Society has stigmatized us on how a girl is to look and that is sad. Sure a child needs to be healthy, and well rounded as a whole person. Being too slim has health risks as well.
@Bhemzky (423)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I dont know about you guys, but I like chubby girls. Those girls that are hug-gables and cuddly are at my interest. Not those girls that are really slim and you cant feel anything when you hug them.
• Bulgaria
19 Apr 10
I am slim myself and thats why I prefer to be with slim girl, but never minds what is the weight of the people, If they like each other. Don't care about others opinion. Be what you want, not what others want to be!
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
19 Apr 10
Ha Ha Ha....vine88, you really make me laugh. Let me tell you the secret. It is only before marriage that boys ask for slim girls, but ask any married man, he will not mind what kind of body women has, because then they already know that any women can give same pleasure, no matter slim or chubby, infact, they prefer a bit healthy one than skinny as skeletons sometimes hurt. Besides as the time passes, men realize that life is not only external attractions, but it is much more than physical relationship. They start appreciating inner beauty of women, who is his wife, mother of his children, care taker of his house and his life partner, who stands by him in all the situations of life. So the conclusion is that, demand for slim girl is just immaturity of men, which matures with time.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
19 Apr 10
hi, Apsara, I agree with you... You said this just because you are a girl. Is that so. I amaze, many girls replied to this discussion. Don't you believe in those things. Most of the man like slim girl. Ys, there is nothing difference, in fat and slim in relationship. i think but the choice goes on slim. -vine.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
19 Apr 10
Thank you myramae19
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
apsara, I agree with you
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
19 Apr 10
It seems most people think anorexic when you say slim. hmmm... Well in actuality, most men prefer their woman to have curves but since you gave them only two extremes to choose from...See females are not all just skinny and just fat. There are in betweens.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Nov 10
Well, I am a chubby girl myself, but that doesn't really mean that I've had a difficult time in my life. That said, I think that the reason that people tend to like slim women more than they like women with some meat on their bones is because of the fact that Hollywood makes it look like slim is the way that people should be. It is because of the way that roles are cast that we are able to see the ideals that we should strive to and because they cast only slim women, all women think that women should be slim.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
19 Apr 10
I think people find slim women and girls attractive because that's what the media dictates; since we were kids all we saw in movies and music and magazines were skinny girls. I believe that kind of gets "wired" in our brains and shapes our perceptions of beauty as we get older. It really isn't fair for the rest of (or majority) of girls who are not necessarily skinny.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 10
because you can cuddle them.hahahh!!! unlike fat girl.its very heavy. slim girl look sexy compared to fat girls.its very obvious. but its not the body is important. its the inside. no matter what you are.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
19 Apr 10
hi, ericj john, May be you are right. may be some are afraid to marry with a fat girl just because if they got angry, they will catch you and throw you from the 5 story building. so you like fat girls too.. I hope you will get one gat beauty soon.. -vine.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
19 Apr 10
I do not think all people like slim girls. Infact a person may love to look at one and be with one but not like to stay with one. This is from my experience. My hubby does admire slim girls but when I want to get slim he says I do not want a body with only bones need some fat also to hold. Hope you understood.
@marguicha (222999)
• Chile
19 Apr 10
I did!
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
it's probably because of the standards set by the society of what is considered as beautiful but if you think about it beauty is only skin deep. what is important is how beautiful a woman's heart is. i also happen to know who adores women who are not slim.
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I'd agree with this. Most of it is influenced by the society and what seems to be prevalent as the general preference, but if you take it individually, there are also a lot of men who like chubby or rotund girls, or others who don't mind whichever you are.
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Slim girls are attractive because they look great in tight clothes. I think boys/men like to look-at at shaped/curvy bodies. So girls in tight clothes with curvy bodies are very attractive. That's my opinion anyway.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
21 Apr 10
Slim is sexy.. lol =D All man likes beautiful things in life.. And some things are meant to be slim, while some things are meant to be big.. And girls happen to be on the slim side, whereby it's candy to our eyes, and we deprive pleasure from watching or looking at them.. lol =D Slim is not everything, but rather they must be proportionate, and have the right curves to show their assets in the right way, but not looking sulty.. lol =D
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
maybe slim near to a healthy view. we know that fat means unhealthy, like cholesterol, heart attack...or something like that
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
4 Sep 10
This is an intersting disscussion. I have a gf who is not slender but big. she is lossing weight and is looking better but she is not complely slender. However I still feel that she is beuitful. I liked slim girls for a long time but since I have been with her my opoin has changed. big girsl are beuitful and sexy too. I think that most people like slim girls becae that is what the current culture accepts.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
21 Apr 10
Men are attracted to the difference in women. If you think of the general shape, if that shape is the same as a man, or is not feminine, it is not attractive because it's not woman like. Fat is a round shape. It doesn't look like a women, it looks like a man, or a fat man. In order for men to be attracted, it must be a shape that reminds them not of men, but of a women. Namely an hour glass shape. Hips and a bust. However too thin is also not attractive. For some reason the people in media and Hollywood, have a deal with super thin. But super thin is just as bad. If the women is a stick, with no curves, that also doesn't remind men of a women. It reminds them of a skinny man. I prefer average. Not fat. Not skinny. Just average. That looks best.
• Indonesia
22 Apr 10
Not really. If you like in African countries then big and chubby women are the hotties. They also love women who have many kids. Beauty is in the eye of beholder, Europeans may like slim women, but in Africa it's the other way around.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
6 May 10
Did you know that last century women were actually viewed as beautiful while heavy? Yes time changes and now most men would like to enjoy a firm body amongst other attributes. Some mature minds would also value a woman for not only her body but her heart, after all the body does go through changes and as you age you would rather value your woman for who she is not only how she is, physically.