whats ur plan for wedding?

We can't afford a wedding. We've decided to just go before a judge with our mom's there like my parents did and just get it legally done. Then we'll have a small reception for our close friends and family. We're hoping the money we save from not having a big wedding we can use to go on a little honeymoon and put down on a house. It's not romantic and definitely not what I dreamed about as a little girl, but that's just how it goes. I love him and I don't care that he can't afford to throw me some huge elegant wedding.

All I know is I want to get married on December 21, 2012. I figure if your going to die might as well be in a church with everyone you love right. And having a priest close to you can help you get into heaven a lot quicker im guessing. You think you would get to heaven quicker lol.

My husband and I celebrated our 40th Wedding anniversary but I never got the wedding of my dreams. I wanted a beautiful long sleeved white lacy gown. To walk down the aisle with my dad and have my sister be my maid of honor and I wanted an outdoor wedding in the early autumn with all the colored leaves. That never happened. I got married in the Spring. My dad and mom did not want me to marry my husband and his dad did not want me to marry my husband, I was 20 and my husband 21. They said we were not compatable or fit to be together and it would not last even a year. They tried to stop us, my dad cancelled my wedding plans, by calling people behind my back and telling them the wedding was off which was a lie. It was not autumn it was spring which was my second choice but it was still a time of year flowers were blooming. He took my fiance's car and thought he could keep us from just eloping that way. How wrong he was. We got a ride from someone and got on the bus with what I could pack and took the bus to Portland, Oregon. My fiance had an apartment there and we got our marriage license in Vancouver Washington we had to wait three days then we got married before a justice of the Peace. His boss stood up with us and the court clerk. It was a rainy day and before our wedding my husband found a small bouquet of purple flowers for me to carry tied in a lavender ribbon and I had gone to Goodwill where he worked and got a Short White formal dress to wear, my wedding dress was hanging in my closet at my parents home. We honeymooned a week later at my parents cabin in the Cascade Foothills of Washington. My parents were residing in Medford, Oregon and not likely to be around. I took my husband to my grandma and some of my uncle's homes and they each gave us a little wedding gift, new towels a toaster and a set of cups. Not a lot. A year later after our first son was born my parents finally came around. They reconciled but I never have got over the deep hurt and disappointment in not having my dream wedding. Even our pictures we hoped for did not come out the shutter of my husband's camera didn't work. We got photos on our anniversary a two years later after our first son was born and I could wear the little white dress again. Just one photo. That became our wedding photo. On our 25th anniversary our daughter decided to get married in May that year a month after our Silver anniversary. Though we had a small party of celebration once again I did not get to walk down the aisle and re say our wedding vows. There was not enough money to pay for the clergy or anyone to do it and to get the dress or things I wanted. We had just had a wedding for my second oldest son in February and my daughter's wedding left nothing for us. This year we had hoped to renew our vows and have a nice wedding party but we have sons quarreling and their wives and other problems arose so we didn't have the hoped for anniversary renewal of vows once again. My dad is gone for 11 years now and my mom for six but I had hoped to have my sons and daughter and their families all getting along and have my oldest son walk me down the aisle to renew our wedding vows with my dear husband of 42 years. Once again hurt and disappointment has been my fate in this. But I still have my husband and he is wonderful, sweet, kind and gentle and he held me while I cried. He wanted us to have that too. We hope and pray we will make it to 50 but he has heart problems and I have health problems too. So maybe when we are 70 and 71 if we both make it that far and our adult children are not behaving as 3 and 4 year olds we might get to have a long belated anniversary wedding at our Golden one. But a lot can happen in 10 years. I am blessed still with a good and long lasting marriage and husband and all my siblings and parents and his parents all got divorced long ago. Some are gone on to heaven or hell and some are estranged by choice but we have the knowledge we are still in love and together and pray for many years to come.

I am getting married on the 1st May and my partner and I have planned to have an *individual* wedding. No big white dress, no fancy reception, no crowds of guests. We want to have our family and friends, a simple civil ceremony and a party. We are not having a honeymoon, we can't afford to at the moment.

Well i had my wedding of our choice. Its love marriage and we had it at new home thats my dream home and we had beautiful decor and everyone said its a palace. And we had honeymoon at Mouritius, a land of beauty.

i am a teenager, so no plans of marriage. But i would like to be married in fron of my family members who have done hard work for me right form my birth. By the i would like to go to Switzerland for my honeymoon :)

For me, this is a once in a lifetime experience. This is a wonderful event that all be remembered for the rest of my life. I am planning a wedding in the sea, where we can see the beauty of the calmness and the waves of it. A simple ceremony where everyone will wear all white from head to foot. I can see my bride so beautiful that I have never seen before.