The Greatest Success in life is Stand Up From Failure?Do You Agree?
By rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
Philippines
April 20, 2010 7:32am CST
Why there are many people who are afraid to fail?Why some of them commit suicide because of failure?Fore me,failure is just part of our life.We should not to be afraid to fail.It is just considered a spice of life.We should always bare in mind when we fail,it is just a challenge to us.God will never give us a challenge which he thinks we can't make it.Once we fail,let's think some ways or strategies to prevent failure the next time. You will never experience success in life if you did not experience failure.I'm sure all of you experience failure.How did you handle it?Would you mind sharing it to everyone?
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21 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
20 Apr 10
I've read of what one famous person once said. It's not the numerous fall that matters but the number of times he gets up after each fall. It certainly is one great tip for life. I said that many times to my kids. The first time it didn't mean so much as it is now whenever each time they remember it. I received an sms once from my second child. It said thank you papa for reminding me. Guess he just had a fall. I couldn't have agreed with you more. Absolutely yes. The greatest success in life is to stand up from failure.
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@nottheleast (129)
• India
20 Apr 10
yeah, i agree with you... i always believe that failure is a stepping stone for success...and without failure we cant taste the real flavor of success...
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
you are correct,we can only experience the real flavor of success when we experienced failure in life.once we experienced it, it test our personality.it test on how strong are we in facing failures.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Yes 100% and even one feel disappointment as long as one survives after all the hurdles and keep on going from every fall and never stop standing is better than stopping permanently. Whenever I felt disappointed or feeling low i just smile and think the other way around that it would just pass by and even if it come again i am not afraid to face it and just ignore it or learn from my past experiences. Life would be so boring if their are no challenges.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
that is a very good attitude of yours.you have the positive thinking.if you have experience failure it will not be hard for you because you know how to handle everything.keep it up!
@umadper (947)
• India
20 Apr 10
hi,i agree this statement 100% as i saw many examples in the society.If it not happens there will not be any existence in this world.But in my case i am little lazy to learn from past bad experiences which some times gave me a big shocks.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
you are correct so it is very important that we are strong enough to face failures in life.
happy mylotting!
enjoy posting!
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
20 Apr 10
That is the spirit we need to face the life at present.
Life has many falls than success - don't mind about that - many people fail to achieve this .This is the real strength but it is not that easy as I am saying. I have faced many such consequences in life, but faced them boldly as I have created a strong will and determination.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
i'm really sorry, this response should be for frontvision,the first responder,i will make another response for you,i'm really sorry
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
if you were able to face failure at the first place,the next time you will encounter another you are already strong and very much ready to face it.you already know what to do.the pain will not be the same as what you felt as it first happen to you.thanks for dropping by on my discussion.happy mylotting!
@bretski_kimie (153)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
true, there is no such thing as success without failure. that is why they call it a success.all the great discoverers and inventors of our time merits their success from failures. they discovered new things from the things unclear. from our failures we learn and gain experiences and thus motivates us to strive harder, to push ourselves to the brink of our abilities. in life, one could never say he has succeeded when he haven't tried failing. as they say, fall down 7 times, get up 8 times.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
welcome to the mylot community.its my pleasure to have your first post on my discussion.you have a great answer.as what i have mentioned in my discussion,failure is just a spice of life,we should not easily give up.if we do, we will not not succeed in life.thanks for sharing.happy mylottinG!
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
nobody is perfect so we are committed to make mistake and mistake leads to failure.it is very important that we are very strong is facing failures in life because that is one of the steps that we have to undergo to reach success in life.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
You are definitely right.. I fully agree with you. Sometimes, there are times that we become so weak that we feel that there is no longer the will to survive. The important thing is to have faith and to trust in God. We must stand up and face the storm no matter what. It does not matter how many times we fall, but what is important is how many times we stand. I do have failures in life, but this does not hamper me from reaching my goal.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Wow!i love your answer. i am more motivated to answer discussions because of your answer.you are correct to have faith and to trust in God is one of the biggest tool in life that we should have for us to face all the failures that we have in life.failure is just natural,and you right in saying that it does not matter how many times we fall, but what is important is how many times we stand.thanks for dropping by on my discussion.happy mylotting!
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
Standing up from failure and not giving up can be the keys to success in life. Learning from our failures plus determination and faith in God would bring us success.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
the things that you have given are great combination to reach success. we should be strong in facing failure..
happy mylotting
thanks for sharing your point of view
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Yes. I've read from somewhere 'failure should be viewed as feedback'. We should view these failures as feedbacks so when we try again, we can learn from that previews experience so we can do things right.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I'm really sorry my friend, i was able to post my response to you on the second responder of the discussion.please just read it there,i'm really sorry.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
It's alright. These things happen. I've read your comment. Thanks.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 Apr 10
I believe in the saying------Failures are the Stepping stones for Sucess .Every one would learn something new from their experiences---if you're successful then share it with others else explore yourself and try to be better next time.
People who are negative minded would get depressed thinking that----They failed 100 times in a row.
Where as positive minded ones---would be happy as they were successful in finding 100 different ways which puts them down.
It makes a great deal to be in the latter category---great day.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Failures are the Stepping stones for Success .I also believe in this saying.when i was a kid, I'm already exposed to failure.but i never give up.i take them all as challenges or spices of life.i will not be here if i was not able to cope them up.this time,i am very much ready to face failure because i have already learned from the past.thanks for the wonderful response.happy mylotting!
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I can not agree with you more that the greatest success in life is standing up from failure in the life. Without the failure again and agin, I think he can not have enough experince to sart a new business,which is dreamed by many people. So with so much experience in our body, I think we can manage our life easier. With the experience from th efailure, we can get the chance to be successful.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I respect your point of view.but for me it is very important that once you failed in one particular thing,the next you encounter,it is expected for you not to fail anymore because you already have enough experience with your first failure.thank you for dropping by.happy mylotting!
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I totally agree. some people can't stand up after being hit by a big failure.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
which is actually wrong.they should be strong to face the failure.it is one way to reach success in life!
@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
yes yes i totally agree cause why do we fall,to pick our selves up,we should learn from our failures,mistakes in life cause it would make us more stronger and maturer cause we face a lots of trials and hardship in life,it is experience and the fact that you experience the taste of failure is good cause you have to learn from it
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
yes, we should always pick our self up.never mind those failures in life.think of them as spice of your life.happy mylotting!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Apr 10
We all measure success in different ways. What we want to achieve and what is actually gained measure our success or failure. Just being able to have the courage to stand up and try should be considered success. To succeed or fail is a path not chosen lightly. Giving it all your best is all we can do. Nobody can ask for more. Success is anything you can hope to achieve.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
21 Apr 10
May be or may not be....
If a person loose his courage to move ahead after each failure then for him failure is failure. Frustration starts within him. He can't be success in life.
From every failure and mistake in life, you don't have to worry, you have to wakes up, move ahead with more courage..you don't have to give up..if courage is there, he will move ahead in life.
From each mistake, he learns, and he knows, when all mistake finish there remain success. He will get success.
Everyone commit a mistake, because that is the only way to learn. Everybody falls once in a while, and it is a good training.
I's like to say it another way,
Scientist, do experiment. Their experiment will not success in the first step. They fails many times... may be 200,300 times, in their research..they will not let go...they think, 200 or 300 is not a failure, not a mistake, they have known,that 300 ideas are not working, that is also a discover..they fails 300 times...there is success in failure too...and in 301 experiment..they will discover.. what they wanted to discover...
So failure is also a step towards a success.
-vine.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
as for me, i have so many failures in life., despite of this difficulties it served me as a challenged., and most of all i am confident enough because i know that God always there watching over me and guide me always., He is my refuge and strength., i always keep His promise says" I will never leave you nor forsake you" so for that instance i am not worried of all my failures.,
@renzoray (59)
•
21 Apr 10
You have no idea how many times I have failed in life. Opportunities missed, job disqualifications, failed relationshiops, unsuccessful carreers, wrong decisions, and business failures. So many times, I have I asked myself why this is all happening to me while others enjoy all the pleasures in life? The answer came right in front of me in the form of four words: Faith, Perseverance, hardwork, and Wisdom. I never really gained all these without the failures that came along the way. For it is better to try and fail than not trying at all. After all, success is not based on the amount of material things you can buy; but how you have lived life despite the failures.
@preciousnic (59)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
yes i agree with you you have to stand up in your failure.
@karlle (221)
•
21 Apr 10
I agree with you. We need to stand everytime we fall, hence the word chances..There's always a chance for us to strive and survive. I experienced those from the time im in school or when I'm working already or trying a business. I know it's hard for us to stand when we fall specially with all the people trying to put you down more. But, if we believe that God has great plans for us and every failure is way for us to know which would be best for us, then we should get up. Everytime, I experienced failure, I always think of Einstein; He wouldn't be known as great inventor if he give up,. ^_^ Einstein thought me to strive for the best and never give up.