Can our love lat forever ,or just lead to mis understanding ?
By lubeimao
@lubeimao (118)
China
April 20, 2010 8:28am CST
True love can bridges the gap of language ,age ,time and distance,such as the story of Frank Yang and Weng Fan and the happiness-ever -after of Antony leung and Fu Mingxia- the diving queen and their three little children .They are the best proof to the definition of the love. However ,realistically, differences in backgrounds and ages between lovers that become the essential reason for the fiercfe quarrel later always end the should-be -endless-love in a failure, With the great difference in age ,can our love last forever, or just lead to misunderstanding .what do you think of it ?
3 responses
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
20 Apr 10
I think if the difference is not to big it can be bridged. If the difference in age or whatever is too great, it could lead to problems. If there is a big difference you might not have anything in common with your partner. I guess if you are very much in love, in the biginning you might take it in stride, but in the end it will cause misunderstandings.
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
20 Apr 10
Hi,
This entirely depends on the individuals involved. There is a need of having enough maturity before going into a relationship. There is a need for independence and total control of mind. By independence here I don't mean financial independence. We should be able to live independently without any external assistance. The realization that you are the sole person responsible for everything that is happening in your life, is the most important motivating factor to a successful relationship. One shouldn't get involved in an affair if he/she doesn't feel quite prepared for it. An unbridled expectation surely ruins a relationship. But there is a quite easy solution for all these things, and that is to acquire love and unconditional surrender to God first, and then planning to get into a relationship. Yes, relationship can last forever, but only between two wise people. Ignorance brings conflict and selfishness neither of which can be allowed in a relationship. If we want to be happy with someone, first we have to learn to be happy without him. Thanks.
God bless you
