Would you be happy with Mr./ Miss Good Enough ?

Hey greenline! I'm not quite sure how to answer this question! Why do we even need to find anyone? Can't we just be content with ourselves? Why do we have to be with someone to feel complete? And do we have to settle with someone we call "good enough"? I always was pretty content being alone. I didn't care if I had someone to be with or not! I am now living with someone, but things are not ok and I don't think we will be together much longer and then I will have to learn how to live alone again after learning how to live with someone for two years! I never even planned on living with anyone to begin with! So, now what am I supposed to do? I will never live with anyone again and as far as I'm concerned I will also never bother with another relationship because they are far too much trouble! I will be content hanging out with my "single girlfriends" who feel the same way! "Good enough is not enough" and nothing is better!

Hi, its been awhile, how have you been? I haven't been on here much too. But it sure is nice to see you again. Yes, i think Mr./Miss Good Enough will do. I believe that there is no perfect person. We can try all our best to find Mr./Ms. Right but we can always turn to Mr./Miss Good Enough and i think he/she will be the best choice.

It isn't that I'm a perfect person , I'm The perfect person for him.And he isn't perfect but he is perfect for me. In other words the flaws we both have aren't deal breakers.I'm lucky I am happy with Mr. Right. But if I had found a guy with 75-80% of the trait I need in a man, I would be happy with Mr. Good Enough.

I say I'd rather be alone...

Lol. It's not really ms. Good enough. :) It's finding someone who's perfect for us, not perfect in every aspect. It's about finding someone that we are comfortable with. If i feel that i'm comfortable being with her then i'd know that she's the one.

Every person is just a good enough. We are all made with a good side and a bad side. We just choose the people that we like with a good side more favorable to us.

I wouldn't settle, but that being said, I don't think anyone is perfect. I know I certainly am not. I'm not going to settle for someone I don't completely love and respect. And I think if I loved and respected them enough to be totally committed to them, in my eyes they wouldn't be Mr. Good Enough or Mr. Perfect. They would be Mr. Just Right for Me.

I don't think anybody is perfect but if we do get married, we have to have Mr./Miss Right. I'm not interested in getting married because I enjoy being single and being my own boss. I'm aware that could change someday, though. The most important thing if I do get married would be for the man to be a member of the church. My parents always stressed that. Kathy.