I can't run out of the sad of my pug named Hei-Pi...

China
April 21, 2010 7:55am CST
I am from China,the People's Republic of China. 1 year ago,my pug named Hei-Pi left the world by a traffic accident.I can't forget t the scene of it,and I think that was because of my carelessness about my honey Hei-Pi. Hei-Pi was a lovely girl,but she left me so suddenly.When we slept on one bed,I think that was one of my best time in my life.I love her face,her fur,her eyes,her ears... I can't find any more fun from other pets or animals.When I close my eyes,Hei-Pi is lying there... I am thinking of her,how can I get the right feeling from the world around? Who can help me,please?
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everafter
@everafter (378)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hi STCler, Before anything else, your pugs name souds really cute! :) I say move on. Like loving a person, I believe you can love someone, something - without owning it or having it infront of you. :) Its okay to wallow and be sad but you gotta move on. :) Love yourself and save yourself from pain. ;)
STCLer
@STCLer (6)
• China
23 Apr 10
Hi,everafter. Firstly, thank you very much. Hei-Pi means "black fur" and "naughty" in Chinese,and Hei-Pi is well received by my friends and neighbors. I will move on with my bestefforts.
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
You could actually move on by doing something else than to think about her. You could spend more time with friends and other activities that would be productive or monotonous to help your mind off of her. But the best thing to do is to think that she's in a better place and that she is now happier with the other pugs. I'm wondering all throughout this discussion what a pug is. I have no idea.
STCLer
@STCLer (6)
• China
23 Apr 10
Thank you, laydee. I believe that she is in a better place,and she is in the paradise with her friends,but she is not beside me,I am not beside her.That's the most important. However,I will try my best to follow your suggestion. Thank you,thank you,my friend.