Bestfriends in love

i never experience that case but for me its really hurt to for me since she's already married and i forget about her and about to my relationship.

hi ry! yup i've been in love with my bestfriend and he was in love with me as well. though our situation is not that complicated like yours because as you said your bestfriend is married so there would really have a great difference. we didn't ended up together because he chose another girl rather than me which really is confusing. i just keep telling myself that he was not ready to take the risk of putting our friendship at stake. we aren't in speaking terms up to now and i guess his decision really changed everything between us. in your situation, there are a lot of people you would take into consideration. first he's married which won't put you in a nice position. it would be like breaking a family. second his kids, if he had. they are the ones would be affected the most. it is nice to be in love and loved. there are moments that we have to follow our hearts if we want to be happy but then there are limits to everything. we don't need to be selfish just to get that love. don't put others happiness aside just for your own when you know that it is wrong. would you be happy if others are not and you are the very reason why they are not?