It is sad, how one day, a person can be here and then gone the next day.
By cream97
@cream97 (29086)
United States
April 21, 2010 6:24pm CST
A woman from my church died last about a week and a half ago. She was 41 years old. She left behind four children. And four grandchildren. I remember last seeing her at the Wic Office at the Health Department. She was staring at me very hard almost the whole time, until they called my number for me to go into the Wic office cubicle. And she was staring at me very hard at the church in June of 2009. She was coming down the church's foyer and she was staring at me. She made me feel so uncomfortable, that I took my kids and put all of them in the car. I did not personally know her. But my husband was good friends with her. The would laugh and joke together all of the time. I think that she may have spoken to me. But she hardly ever said anything to me. My husband attended the funeral, but I did not go. No one never said how she died. The newspaper report said that she died at home. I was told that before her death, she was very stressed out about some personal issues that her son was involved in. Out of respect for her death, I will not mention what it was. I think that stress killed her. She was always at the church cleaning, driving the buses and helping out at the church in many activities. It really bothers me, because I don't understand how can a healthy individual just die for no reason. I don't know if she had any health conditions that could have contributed to her death. It is a mystery how she died. It is especially strange to me, because I have just seen her in June and July of last year. I was also told that her mom died in October of last year. That could have amounted to her stress as well. It is very scary when you know someone and have been around them, and then all of a suddenly they just die. Life is very short, it really is. Our church have lost more members this year too. I wonder how many more will be deceased before this year is out with. It is like God is picking flowers one by one.
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9 responses
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
22 Apr 10
Some people die young and some die at a ripe old age. All must die is an acceptable fact. We are puzzled when we see someone dying young. We begin to question God's discretion. I know one thing for sure; no one likes to pluck fruit if it is not ripe. We also know some fruits ripe early and some ripe late. May be to us the person appears young but in sight of God the person is ripe enough. God takes us away after he sees we are ripe and we have sweetness in us He needs for creating a new world. There is yet another criterion for discarding things. We keep them as long as we find them useful. May be God too does the same. If God sees that the person is no longer useful, and he or she would not serve the purpose for which He had sent them to this world, He takes them away. We ought to thank God for both things.
@wookieekyut (673)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Sad to hear that story. She was young to go and leave her children. That's one of my fears. I fear of dying and leave my children. They are dependent on me. Stress do kill. She must have gone through a lot. Whatever her son did, it might have contributed to her stress.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Apr 10
yes indeed cream life is sort of fleeting so we should remenber
this and be kind to all as we never know when one of our friends
may somehow sicken and die within days. I love your last phrase
cream. Because we do not know how many days or months any of
us have we should be good to each other all the time.
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@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
22 Apr 10
That is really sad to hear. I went through a similar situation last year. A friend of our family suddenly passed away and we were shocked because she was perfectly healthy. My mom and I had gone down south to visit some friends and she came over. My mom was talking with her and they were joking around and having a great time. A week after that we suddenly got a call from a mutual friend telling us that she had passed away. She wasn't feeling well one day and just collapsed and passed away.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
We better not count the number of deaths. It'll just make everything gloomy. Life is too precious to take forgranted. We should live it and just let the woman rest in peace. I'm sure she's in a happy place right now.
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@xinlingchengbao (438)
• Tianjin, China
22 Apr 10
It is sad to hear that.
Yes,life is short ,let's cherish every day.
I wish you happy.
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@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
We are not immortals we live and Die. The time we are here in this world is so short that we can't do everything we want to do. And It is always sad to have someone gone.
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