(: DISC 6 :) Will I get married and have my own family?
By lamb_16
@lamb_16 (63)
Philippines
April 21, 2010 7:14pm CST
Human cycle always been like this: baby, toddler, kid, grade school, adolescence period, high school, first puppy love, got some college, part time job, post graduate, young adulthood stage, first real love, first job, first promotion, earn money, heartbroken, responsible son or daughter, adulthood, second bf/gf, getting married, start a family, own a house, first baby, get into business, second baby, grow old, babies get adults, you die and end of your cycle.
Along the way of my life, there's always been up's and down, which made me a better person. But the big question is, Will I be getting married soon? It's a serious question that keeps bugling in my mind for quite sometime. I'm at the right age right now but I think no one dares because of my heavily unaccepted past which was the reason why my girlfriend and I broke up.
Though I am not in a hurry or even that pathetic to have one, I'm in stage where I seek and longed to have a family.
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10 responses
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
that's one thing i have in my list before i die. 
it's nice to be with people that loves you.
no worries about it though i can't see myself getting into that sooner right now. I can't deny that i'm getting older but i still have a lot of things to do. it's like i just log in for work and it's too early for a nap. 
. i have to work things out then get that kind of life (married life)
it'll come. just sit back and relax lenz..
it's nice to be with people that loves you.
no worries about it though i can't see myself getting into that sooner right now. I can't deny that i'm getting older but i still have a lot of things to do. it's like i just log in for work and it's too early for a nap. . i have to work things out then get that kind of life (married life)
it'll come. just sit back and relax lenz..
@javalooks (51)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 10
Hi lamb.
Someone who makes decision to have his own family is someone with a great decision. But more than that, before you decide to get married, you must have a brave to being a leader (husband/father) in your family soon. So you should be a wisely person with patient and try to leaves all the negative things that you always do in your single life. But don't worry, it's all happen with the process, and it was happen to all parents in this world including your parents.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Time will come that you will be able to answer that question . . If you are destined to have a married life, the person whom you will spend for the rest of your life will just come your way. You need not seek that person . . . .
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 10
waw that's really complete stage LOL 
If you are afraid of getting married soon then just don't think about it, just walk on your life, do it with your best, until you arrived and you may pass it without realizing it
If you are afraid of getting married soon then just don't think about it, just walk on your life, do it with your best, until you arrived and you may pass it without realizing it 
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 10
I can understand your feeling as I am in your situation right now. I have been single for three years after my terrible break-up, and after I felt that I found the right one, unfortunately, the guy is a bad guy, wrong guy for me and it makes my parents disappointed. My past is not that good either, sometimes I am afraid that good men can`t accept that. But...I stick to my principle: NOBODY`s PERFECT in this world! What is most important is that we try to be a better person and we must be able to forgive ourselves.Not all our bad past happened because we are bad people. Life is not mathematics, life is complex. Nobody can judge us before they know what really happened, our problem`s background etc.My advice is TRY TO FORGIVE YOURSELF and BE POSITIVE. Don`t be too pushy, just let it flow naturally. Hope i can find a better man too..don`t forget to pray and involve GOD in all aspects of your life. May GOD bless you
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
well, you can share with me what that experience bro... we came from the same country and the same region.... .and neighbor island... (bayawan city, oriental negros)PM me if you want..
well, you are the MAN bro... what i am trying to imply is you have the right and the privilege to court a girl... . you have to make the FIRST MOVE of course if you like to settle.. find a girl and tell her the truth... . if she accepts you then she loves you. if not, then she doesnt love you.....
@piya84 (2581)
• India
22 Apr 10
Hii there
See there are people who cant accept too much past and there are some people who take risk and accept you as you are.I would suggest you to be open about your past and admit that you have now moved on and you are looking for a serious relationship and want to build family.
There will be some people who will run after listening your past and then there will be few who will be willing to take a risk.If you build relationship and they tell your would be about your past they might freak out and leave.
So be upfront about everything form beginning.This way you will save your time and it will be more easy to find out "The One".
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
All of us have a chance to get married and have there own family. There are lucky ones who work out relationships just fine but some ended bad. I dont know what happened to your past but I think if the girl really loves you, she will accept you no matter how bad it could be. I wish you to be happy and many like you are also waiting for the right one to come.
@engrdng06 (248)
• Japan
22 Apr 10
At times, there are moments when we wished we have partners to whom we can share our problems, help us and care for us, not for a moment but for a lifetime. I ,myself has been asking sometime, if Ill get married too and have my own family. Just like you, Im on the right age already, have my boyfriend but seems have no plans of settling down. Sometimes Im bragging things out on him but I guess I just cant make anything which are not really meant to be. Everytime I see friends,who already have their own family, I cant help but get envious. But things go that way. There are some who can have it earlier and some are just destined not to have any. Well I just wish, I can have it too, even not for now, at least to have it.
