who do you choose?

@hibang (80)
Philippines
April 22, 2010 3:04am CST
If you are in a dilemma choosing between the one you love or the one who loves you, who do you choose? And why?
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12 responses
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
4 May 10
I choose the one who I love, because the one who lives me deserves to find someone who truly loves him, which I don't in this scenario. I'm pretty charming and I'm sure I could seduce the person I love if I set my mind to it!
• Philippines
4 May 10
The one who loves me because i know that in time i can love her/him back. If i choose the one i love but he/she loves somebody else it would just hurt me more seeing the two of them together.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 10
I think I would choose the one who loves me as it is not easy to find someone who love you. Learn to love the one who love you.
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
I would choose the one who loves me because in this way, I feel like it is easier to learn how to love him back than be hurt if he doesn't love me. Although it is best if both of you have mutual feelings for each other. lol.
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 10
If it was up to me, I would choose a person who loves me because she loves me for who I am. Especially if I've known that person for a very long time and is a friend of mine whom I've spent a lot of time with.
22 Apr 10
In my opinion, as painful as it may be, I wouldn't choose either. Love is a two way emotion. You cannot make yourself love someone just because they love you, neither can you make someone love you. Both situations are unfair. I believe that if you are patient you will find someone who will share the love with you, if not, well at least you know you haven't been living a lie.
@khalida (1126)
• India
22 Apr 10
well i would go for the one i love because even if the person who loves me shows his care, i would be reminded of my love right! usually its good if you choose the person who loves you they say, but that would work great only when you don't love somebody else! :)
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
It would be rather selfish of me of i choose the one i love and I don't think I will be happy being with someone who does not love me back. Unrequited love can be quite painful so I would go for the one who loves me. I am not hard to please and as relationship progresses I might be able to learn to love him back. Then again it would be best if both of you are in love with each other at the onset of the relationship.
@karlle (221)
22 Apr 10
I will choose the one who love me, for a peron who loves us is the only person who will try his/her very best to understand us and accept our flaws. If we choose the one who love us, there will come a time that we will fall in love with him/her.Have a nice day!
• China
22 Apr 10
the best result is the one who loves me and i love her.secondly, maybe i choose the one who loves me. because the choice can makes me obtion love mach than paid.
@oxio10 (135)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
This is confusing but i think i should be careful enough when choosing someone for the sake of my happiness. I have to choose the one i love, its not being selfish anyway, its just that we have given chances to make our life happy. So why would you choose the one that loves you but you don't love anyway. Its pathetic, and its sounds desperate. Choosing the one who loves you sounds like you are running out of choices, that is.
• Australia
22 Apr 10
It depends what you are choosing it for. For boy/girlfriend, it is good to choose the one you love. This way you will have more fun and exciting life since you love the person you are with. For marriage, it is better to choose the one that loves you. Marriage is about long time relationship. If you recieve more than you give, marriage life will become happier for you. But if you give more than you receive in a relationship, you will feel alone.