share your tip to make people stop attached you.....help

Maybe people thought you are also interested with them, they seem to know you as friendly and lovely. They will not know your true feeling if you will not inform them. Like for example, if you gave your number to someone, tell him or her that you can reply only at this time. ( give him/ her specific time )... You inform that you can't chat with them at same time you are chatting with your boyfriend. Just give your available time for them. I'm sure they will understand. Don't get annoyed that is why we are here for social networking, have fun... or else you can loog on another account so you can have chat with your boyfriend alone. No one will distube you.

Too much of Love and care is pain in theass, I dont like others to bother me when I want to enjoy my privacy, I will keep those helping/irritating people away by manipulation or lies, because I respect my loneliness.

Well you could just flat out tell them that your not interested thats kind of rude especially if they only want your friendship and are not trying to get anything else. I know it can be a pain if your online only to talk to one person and a whole mess of people message you wanting to chat. Whats nice on aol im is that you can set yourself to invisible. I never use the invisible mode but many of my friends do. I kind of wish sometimes that you had that option on facebook because on their I really do want to just be on sometimes without having to chat or be online and not have to chat with certain people. Good luck I dont really have any other advice to give you.

In most cases, cruel, straight forward honesty works very well. If you're not interested talking to them, tell them, "I don't wanna talk to anyone right now. I'll let you know if I do". Or "I'm not interested in you nor do I wanna talk to you." With most things in life, there is a thing called, "Off Button." If you don't feel like talking to certain people, don't be sorry, don't be shy, don't be afraid, just tell them the way it is. "I don't like you butting in everytime I come on line. That's very rude & annoying. I'm on line for a reason & I'll let you know if I'm avaliable to talk. I have to go now." That line usually works very well. Don't lower your standards on other people's behalf, that includes becoming a liar because of them. No matter how small of a lie or innocent of a lie it is, lie is a lie. If someone ask you for your phone number, tell them you don't want to. Tell them you don't care to know them, if that's how you feel. It's your life, why live it for other people?

Well, your situation is hard to solve in a way that you cannot stop people who give interests on you because you are basically true to yourself and quite hard for you to pretend things or even leave some words may hurt them unintentionally. People has their own moves and you cannot stop them directly but the mere fact you avoid any calls or bridges with them, then in time they will initially not put you in mess again and affecting your relationship and privacy at all. Rejecting any instances of attachments is the best. Also letting them know that your mobile is for work purposes only and not on a personal note. Prevent actions or situations that will lead you for any unwanted things or even just let them be tired of doing such. Though there are people who find it hard to understand or insensitive enough, respect will also be given to them. Change your email and chat sites account are best to do if you really want to avoid all of them in favor of your own privacy. For they will not bug you anymore. Im sure your close friends will understand your undertakings for that matter as your privacy and own protection for yourself as well. good day..

Friends normally want to keep in touch with friends. And if they are your friends, you should feel lucky to have them around. But if you need privay, you have to tell them frankly but with sensitivity. It could be as simple as this: "Thanks, guys from calling/dropping by! But I still need to do something important, can we have it next time instead?"

I think you have problem in saying no.Learn to say no.If picture in you my lot avatar is you then it obvious that you are going to get hits from young men. Start saying no politely without being rude.Dont add friends on yahoo messenger.If you want less attention then dont display this picture on internet.You can choose simply something like flower ,kitten to get less attention online.

Put a big 'L' on your forehead. That's full proof they'll stop bothering you. kidding. Just ignore them. The only reason you're bothered by them is because you let yourself be bothered by them. Ignorance is bliss. That's what i do.

in facebook, choose of offline in chat. in yahoo sign in as invisible, skype choose busy. in anyways you can manage a personal address for your personal someone.

simply tell them in a nice way that you need a moment to be alone and you need it. And hope that they would understand you. ^^