What happy couples talk about?
By a2beads
@a2beads (100)
Philippines
April 22, 2010 11:39pm CST
An article in yahoo caught my attention, What do happy couples talk about? According to the article, happy couples should be able to talk about:
1. Embarassing Moments
2. Political Viewpoints
3. Fears and Insecurities
4. Childhood
5. Past Relationships
6. Family Life
7. Current Events
8. TV and Movies
9. The future.
I agree with this article, to be able to be with a person we should be open and comfortable to talk not only about what's easy and safe for you and the other person but also sensitive and personal topics. This will ensure that we get to know very well the person we're with. Given time, we can be more comfortable talking about everything about ourselves and also gives us chance to spend time and experience new things together and make new stories and topics.
What do you think? Can you openly discuss all of the above topics with your current special person?
2 responses
@ersanmiguel (476)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
Yes we do! I think you will not be able to get to know a person if you will only care about all the good stuffs in life. For us it's also a way of our alone time together.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
23 Apr 10
I agree with all the things you told except past relationships. I don't think it is nice to talk about past relationships unless the couple is very close and they are in a mental situation to take it. Otherwise, the details about the past relationship will be there in the mind of the spouse and it can create big problems in the relationship. It happens when one has many past relationsips and the other person has no past relationship or one past relationship.
