Hate someone

I wont be hating one for long.. I'm an easy going guy.. If i really hate that person, i will be sure to really hate them for that very moment with all those very evilish thoughts in my mind, of wanting to torture them.. haha =D BUt after i calm down, i will be back to my sense again, and the feeling of hatred will be gone.. So far, till now, i have not really hated anybody yet, even though some had betrayed my trust before.. hehe

the person that i hate is myself coz i cant control myself ...like promise myself to eat healthy foods and exercise ..I always end up breaking my own promises. Gosh how i hate myself! :)

like for real, if someone want to waste thier time hating someone for something totally stuipd. then the person who is hating is stuipd. if someone hates me oh well, they be alright. just leave me alone.

Hating starts only if they get some negative or hurting answers(responses). Normally we shouldn't hurt as it really troubles to some one and they may not develop in their activities.Instead we have to encourage them to either learn or stop hurting,This will happen only with the newbies. Because of ignorance as to what has to be responded then may give some wrong answer. So in my lot encourage newbies.

if you will check one of my started discussions, it's about how should I do with a co-member on a beneficial group for me which I feel very uncomfortable. Well, what I do is just not to mind them. There are times when you will feel you really can't get enough of that person's presence but if you do something else against that person's will then the conflicts will just grow. Just keep quiet whenever there's nothing good you will say; just behave whenever there's nothing good you will do. Or if you really can't hold your feelings... do the confrontation. For me, I do that. But I normally just keep it to myself and don't pay attention much to the person. If this is about you had quarrel with somebody, what I do is... if I don't say sorry because I know it was my fault... I don't mind that person after all or I'll let that person do the first move for us to forgive each other. If I already apologized and that person didn't take my apologies then I'll let that person do the next move.