Please give some suggestions, Its very necessary for meeeeeeeeee
By sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
India
April 23, 2010 8:50am CST
Hi friends, i had a friend and now i lost her because of money. I helped her in each and every moment, but when i was in need of money at that time she didnt see back towards me and i lost her. She cut my friendship without any mercy. I tried so many times to talk or to chat but she refused. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me some suggestions so that again i can get my friend.........
4 responses
@persistence2010 (45)
• China
23 Apr 10
i do believe that when the friendship relates to the money ,it becomes complex, we can gauge wether he/she is a true friend.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
23 Apr 10
i would suggest you to keep money matter way from friendship.Another thing since you have lot her already now move on and fin some one else.There are plenty good people around and see someone having same interest and be better prepare in life for bad times.Financial up and downs are part of life so start saving for young age.It will help you in old age.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
23 Apr 10
if you want to loose a friend lend them money. this is why i dont do it with friends.
well all you can do is try a few more times, and either she will come around or she wont. if she dont then you see how much your friendship didnt mean to her to begin with.
we helped one of my wife friends out a few times, the last time was a large amount and she didnt have nothing at all. lots of medical issues and issues with her kids.
she promise and promise to pay us back, yeah never did and what worst she stopped talking to us all togther. the last time we saw her was at her son viewing. and once again she promise to keep in touch and once again she never did.
so with her i understand in away but dont turn your back on people who was willing to help you out. my wife said she cant get mad or upset at her. myself i am like screw it and her.
so if your friend dont want to talk to you, give it time. or that is what your friendship was base on using you for money. and if you guys end up making up dont lean her or anyone else money.
@bretski_kimie (153)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
It is not worth your friendship. Obviously she is just after your financial support. As they say you can identify who your true friends are when you are in need and out of money.