My friend just told me he likes me...
By wigima5
@wigima5 (904)
United States
April 24, 2010 12:36am CST
OKay so I have this friend tat I talk to on facebook chat all the time. n in our conversations we usually talk for sooo long. n he always started kinda flirting in the messages, until it was more n more. n especially recently i could tell he really liked me. until i finally wrote in french "why cant we both say wat we mean? u like me, im not sure if i like you, why is love so hard?" n he translated it online i guess n next thing i know he writes back a huge thing in french saying that he liked me and he just wasn't sure how to tell me. :) Aww this is so sweet. I'm still not sure if I like him or not, i need to hang out more to tell that. But it was soo cool how he took the time to write it in french.
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13 responses
@lightknight60 (561)
• India
25 Apr 10
have you ever met him ??..if not then waste of time ..
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@marriedtopaul (22)
• United States
24 Apr 10
that is so sweet,i mean you could always go on a date with him,isint dating supposed to be ment for getting to know each other.That way you can tell if the feelings are mutal or not.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
You definitely have to know this guy more. You never know who you'll meet in facebook. My cousin got harassed there a few weeks ago. I suggest you try to know him better before you meet him.
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
26 Apr 10
well no, i did meet him already a few times. He graduated last year so I don't see him in school. But I saw him before at my friend's house, and then twice he invited me to parties at his house. So i HAVE seen him before, and i know he's real, we have many mutual friends. I just HAVE only seen him 3 times. n i need to hang out with him more n get to know him better.
@asherra (35)
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
i don't wanna all negative on you girl but writing or chatting to someone gives one a whole lotta hell of a chance to appear like the superhero we've all been dreamin of. it gives one time to think, to bluff, to make excuses, to create lies... i know a lot of people who are able to flirt on chat but can't do it in person or has another identity in reality.
if you really think that this guy is somebody special, better make the talks on a personal one-on-one, face-to-face talks coz if a guy is really into you, chatting may be an outlet to gain a bit more confidence but face-to-face instead of facebook only will give you answers you're truly lookin for...
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@wigima5 (904)
• United States
26 Apr 10
yea, ur right. :) It IS completely true, I agree with you. n I know tat cuz I know it gives me more time to respond to things too. But I have seen him 3 times before, like I've said (or maybe i forgot to put tat in). so im planning atm to ask him to just hang out one day n see how it goes. cuz in reality ive never spent tat much time with him. so we could maybe just hang out n i could sort my feelings and then if i realize i like him, i could go on a date. :)
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
25 Apr 10
congratulations, i wish you all the best and hope that this new spark will grom into the flames!! Just remember to take caution with internet dating make sure u understand and trust who u r talking to and where they live. there is true love to be found everyday but there is scams and lies each day also.
@common_man (1799)
• India
24 Apr 10
Hi
I am happy to see you happy and excited, on your friend saying you he likes you.
Friend let me tell you very frankly, the tome of your discussion, your excitement and your happyness clearly indicates you also like him. The question is when you accept this fact! 
All the best 
Friend let me tell you very frankly, the tome of your discussion, your excitement and your happyness clearly indicates you also like him. The question is when you accept this fact!
All the best 
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
that's so sweet for him to write in french,
which for him really is not usual thing to do!
take that as an effort!
most guys usually do that for someone they really liked.
if you think you already liked him,then maybe you should tell him how you feel.
but take things slow,don't rush things ahead of you,
enjoy life while being young.
there's so much things for you to learn.
being good friends is a start for lasting relationships.
have fun always!!!
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
26 Apr 10
haha, k sure I will. :) Yea...I think you're right. Since he's putting in all this effort I think I should at least give him a chance and see how it goes. You never know unless you try I guess. And I've been in that situation before, on his side, n I remember always wishing that person had at least taken a chance with me.
