Be thankful that i get jealous...

jealousy - you make me feel im attractive when u get jealous baby
Philippines
April 24, 2010 4:23am CST
Jealous fits causes heartaches and headaches. Jealousy can destroy a relationship. But sometimes it strengthens the bond. Ladies admit it, don't we just get more smitten when the love of our life gets jealous sometimes? And do we really get worried if he doesn't get jealous at all? (^_^)
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• Philippines
24 Apr 10
I admit that I get jealous and insecure at the same time. But what I make sure is that, whenever I feel that I am jealous,paranoid and the such, I have reasons to back up why I feel such. I am so tired of getting jealous over things that I don't have proofs because it will just end up in either arguing or fighting-which I also don't want to happen. Good day!
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
I agree, if it strengthens , then its a good thing. But if it is getting destructive, then something must be done to manage it. Have a great weekend!!! (^_^)
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Apr 10
lol Actually lipstick2009 I'll run the other way no looking back if someones going to be jealous like that. I was in a relationship for too long being accused of this thing and that. There is nothing worse than the person who is suppose to love you having no trust in you especially when you've given them no reason to feel this way. I wouldn't be worried. I'd thank god for a man who trusts me.
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Well we all get jealous sometimes, we just have different way of expressing them and sometimes we are not vocal about it. Hope u have a great weekend ahead!! (^_^)
@Naisan (215)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
yup you got it right there, as we ladies want constant affirmation of their attention and love hehehe
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
haha truelala good wishes for u and ur loved ones (^_^)
@prasunsam (356)
• India
24 Apr 10
well most of the things that i would have said is alredy here but would like to add a bit more that jealously in any form is not good i think it could give a momentous pleasure but not good in the long run.So we should try to stop it on the first time only,when we feel that our partner is getting jealous and i would tell her that have some faith in me.
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Yes i agree with you. I think when a woman gets jealous, it is just one of her way of asking some assurance from her loved one. Have a great week ahead!!! (^_^)
@aisa62379 (150)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Yes i prefer my man get jealous coz it shows that he cares and loves me. But of course i dont like too much jealousy which come to a point that he is already beating me.
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Oh dear yes beating mustn't come with jealousy.I think that's not jealousy anymore. There is a deeper issue , more deeper than jealousy. (^_^)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
I am more flattered when my boyfriend get jealous of someone, though there is nothing to get jealous at all. The truth is he is a very jealous guy. I love his being jealous anyway. He always telling me to put my attention with him, whenever we have our conversation. So funny when we are having our lunch at the restaurant and suddenly got jealous with the waiter. I could say that we are stronger now than before, bcoz we pass all the jealousy he has. We don't really need to worry about jealousy as long as we are not doing anything wrong in our relationship. So cheer up girl!!
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Yup i agree, don't we feel soooo beautiful when that happens haha... Great weekend for you!!! (^_^)
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
24 Apr 10
Ladies admit it, don't we just get more smitten when the love of our life gets jealous sometimes? Actually no..In fact i find it beyond annoying and a sign of mistrust and insecurity in regards to our relationship which are two things I can't stand...Luckily my husband ISNT the jealous type which is a very good thing since I have a lot of guy friends that I'm very close to..
• India
25 Apr 10
Hi in a relationship jealousy is a sure sign of possesiveness, more bonding firm and stronger, i have a cute wife i married 44 years ago but we are happy, we are possessive no doubt.. Thank you so much for this nice discussion, cheers God bless you. Prof
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Hi there lipstick2009! I am a jealous person as well and it truly runs in my system and i really don't know why. This is the reason why i understand my husband if he gets jealous because i am also like him in many ways. I like to see him jealous but not all the time especially when im not in a good mood. Of course i will get worried if he didn't get jealous to me at all, there's should be reasons and it is something i may not love to heard off...LOL! Have a nice day ahead!
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Yes you are right. I guess jealousy is a natural feeling when a person is in love, comes with the package. But yes too much of anything is bad. Have a great weekend ahead. (^_^)