What's the biggest reason for your Love Quarrel?
By janee_astig
@janee_astig (42)
Philippines
April 24, 2010 11:34am CST
There's no perfect relationship. There are times that no matter how we love the love of our life, we sometimes hurt them. There are plenty of reasons, might be jealousy, cultural gap, long distance relationships, mistrust... Name them! All these things bring us from tears to break-ups.
I'm conducting this poll for my blog. So, what's the biggest reason for a misunderstanding, fight, or break-up in your relationship? Feel free to tell us your experiences so we may also learn from them. Will be sharing mine after the first answer. ;)
2 responses
@janee_astig (42)
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
I also am in to mood swings! We've been friends long before we came to be lovers and my hubby has an ex that was so important. I couldn't help but feel jealous even if it's been years since they have split up. We love each other. It's not that I don't trust the love of my life but when we have an argument, I can't stop bringing up her past love or her past mistakes. It's my biggest weakness and I'm afraid that she would lose her patience.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Hi, I've just made a quick review on my passed quarrels in my relationship and I think that the biggest fight and most of the other fights we had are usually caused by misunderstandings. The situation varies but it all goes down to misunderstanding on somebody's part or both part. I hope I was able to help. 
@janee_astig (42)
• Philippines
24 Apr 10
Thanks,choybel. In our case, we fight a lot because I keep bringing things from her past in every argument we have. I'm jealous of things and people that have long been gone and this makes the small thing a big deal. Every time we have a fight, my understanding mind is always outweighed by negative thoughts and emotions, til the little talking becomes shouting, hating and rejecting.
