Were you ever caught lying in a date?
@joedollarhuat (580)
Philippines
April 25, 2010 9:25am CST
I wasn't yet caught because I am an honest person during dates :) How about you?
4 responses
@EmilSpasov (152)
• Bulgaria
25 Apr 10
i don't lie but sometimes i prefer not to tell all facts about me especially on a date with someone new
and if the relationship turns after that in a longterm one, well, sometimes i got caught about that facts i kept for myself
but anyway it's not lying so the whole story passes quickly ;)
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@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
25 Apr 10
i never had any date yet.. but i m an honest person... and i always say true.. i think most of the time.. if u really love someone then dont say lie to him or her..
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Sometimes we have to lie, especially those times when your date says : " Do you think I am sexy?" (even though she is like 20lbs too heavy). It is called white lie. Being nice so that the other person won't be offended :)
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Ok, I hope your date comes out right :) Tendency is that most girl would get hurt with the "ugly truth" and possibly leave. Well, it is all up to you. Happy MyLotting :)
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Well its hard to escape if you are a guy. Sometimes it becomes obvious that you are about to pick an answer that might hurt your partner. Some people have low sense of self-esteem thus, promoting white lies to keep someone happy :) Happy Mylotting :)
@Trancemaker (27)
• Cyprus
25 Apr 10
I try not to lie, at all if possible. Of course with women, most men will agree, that if you don't lie, your toast...
It hard to be honest if you will make the other person feel bad. Lies are almost essential, so instead of lying, I try to find every bit of good in the thing we are talking about. But it's very hard when a question is quite direct. If you do not know the other person for years (or very well) then your answer is crucial.
And on dates (as far as I can remember) it means you are in the beginning of the relationship, or before becoming a couple. So you usually can't have a discussion about something without something bad coming out of it... on the other hand in a relationship, it's normal to disagree, and you come to peace with it. On a date, you expect everything to be great.
