Would need your views on this.

Here in Spain, where I am living right now, I learned the following expression (which I think means roughly the same you mentioned): "A person doesn't realize (appreciate) what he/she really has got until he/she looses it". For example, if your partner/boy or girlfriend/husband or wife leaves you, then you start missing him or her.

Hi, i must say that it's really true as i have gotten good and bad comment on phone whenever i go out afte the outing the text or call comes in commending me or telling me how disappointed they are on how i showed up or portrayed myself.

wow, nice phrase. well, if I see him just walking pass by then I will judge him by his clothes but if he is my friend then I will have to learn more about that.

I think some people just look at the outside appearance of a person when we first meet them and end up knowing he/she has bad attitude in the end. Leaving us no other choice but to leave the person XD.

Yes That's true. When i meet someone dressed in a suit i judge him as someone who's rich but when he's gone i judge him by his heart.

hi avani, In my view about the quote you have shared, that often we judge a person fast based from what we see, but when the person leave, we are able to realized about on the person based on what we feel by heart. Do often, we make initial judgments brought about by what impression we see,, without even thinking the whole totality of the person, that is why when he leaves, we have already an understanding of what kind of person he is and our judgment may even be fairly based not anymore on what we first saw like physical appearance, but what we have seen truly in his heart. Often, when we meet a person, we do not know his totality and we can only determine him based on what he brings or offer and that refer to "clothes" meaning his wearings,his physical build up, his thoughts and views by interactions, our assuming over all characteristics based on what we seen and observed. But, after that interaction with him, able to know him well and how he thinks and interact with a person, then, the true color of the person has been revealed not with the clothes or extravagant things he wear, but on his personality..then you can even judge him by his heart. This is true, for often we judge a person by to what only be seen visible to the eyes..but, there are things in life that the eyes cannot see.. It is only the heart that can feel.. For there are people who are blind, but can presumably judge a person by his heart... happy mylotting!!

Very good quote! Never heard this one before. Thanks for sharing! I think it's very true...once you get to know a person-you find out things you didn't know about them...what's under the surface.