Does really love last?
By joyzcare
@joyzcare (30)
Philippines
April 25, 2010 11:52pm CST
I am just wondering, if it is possible to love a person even relationship end particularly in a boy-girl relationship. Does anyone here loves an ex inspite of all the pains you had with the person, even with no communication at all or even you are cheated and the like.
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@Analynmgt (20)
• Philippines
5 May 10
Love may last forever. The feelings that we have for a certain person may last for a lifetime, he/she may not be your ex, he/she may not know you... You can love a person even from afar. The heart of a person can accommodate millions, it can love many in different degree.
The feelings for that person will always be there, even years pass by, but if handled properly, this will be buried deep down in our heart (daw kanta, hehe)and you will notice that it is not as intense as before...
@kenruno (35)
• Kenya
26 Apr 10
Yeah, I believe you can love somebody even after ending a relationship. However this is a dangerous thing because you are refusing to let go of a relationship that is no more....I tend to believe that you are exposing yourself to more hurt if you refuse to let go of somebody who do not love you anymore.
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Why would those pains even be an issue if it's really a relationship? What you describe seems a lot more like an obsession. A real relationship is mutual and joyous. Of course, I can only speak from the experience of a very long, very wonderful relationship!
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
For me, love can really last even if you had all pains with the person. Actually, I'm not in the position of answering this question since I don't have an ex yet. I have one bf since then and up to now. I am happy and contented with him. And I think if there will come a time that we have to part ways, I would still look for him and come back to him.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Yes it really last, in some cases actually nowadays, that young girls and boys get so much emotional and very into relationship. They get too attached to their girlfriends and boyfriends that they love it too deep. There are many, despite of what their EX bad things do to them, they still love them.
@vikramtop1 (154)
• India
26 Apr 10
you know that wonderful feeling of being in love with a new boyfriend and when you cant wait to see your other half and just every thing is perfect and you can completely be yourself when they are around and love them more than anything well how long does that usally last if it ends is that normal or does it mean you should end the relationship?what if it never end? thankxx