how to judge myself?

hi, I would say WOW!!! this should be something you have to think about now cuz if you spend all your time playing game is useless. but if those game pay off and make your life style living good then, good. However, it is not then you have to think what he asked you. let me try to explain what he asked. How to make friend? means: you have to make good friend with someone that have future life... not useless friend. doesn't mean all your friends are useless but some are cuz all they know just something that is not valuable. how do you do when someone ask you to do something that you want to do? I dont get this question. something you dont want to do? if this then you have to answer"NO, you do what you want to do and valuable". Do you know your advantage or dis advantage? lolz... doesnt make any sense here... If you want to make your life a little better than this... stop playing game and go out and do something that ur friend does

Why do you want to judge yourself? Is it because your friend was judging you as no good at all? Is that how you feel, or just a pressure from a friend? If I were you, please don't be too hard on yourself, just because somebody had told you this and that. You are the master of your own self. Yes, spending much of your time playing games is not good at all! But, the question you should ask to yourself is why do you prefer to spend much playing, than studying hard? When you would know the reason, then start from there. Make changes in your life not because your friend told you so, but because it's yourself who decided to be better.Just balance everything, study hard, then after that, play!..I am the type of person who practice WORK AND PLAY.

Judging oneself is much better because from that point on you will be able to criticize your own self. You already know what's your weak points and your strong ones. You don't depend on others to make judgment of you and you can easily adjust yourself to become a better person out of it. If others judge me I welcome it as long that I find useful things on that criticism. It's by knowing what's wrong with yourself that you will emerged successful one day. It's like self awareness and choosing to correct your mistakes will be beneficial to you in the future and to other people around you.

oh, in the contrast ,I learned and I am still learning the importance of not judging myself. Rather than being so harsh or self critical, I now know it is good to laugh at myself and be gentle. I used to crucify myself over my foibles. But they were so refreshing to others as I was so often told and also considered charming I would later hear. So I had to embrace that part of me, it was only right. Before I would have gone into self bitterness over it but I learned to love me as I am. There is simply no time for judging myself anymore. It weighed me down far too long and it is my time to fly now so I have kissed self judgment goodbye.

Confident: first of all you don't need to judge yourself, because the tendencies are if you find yourself less then you will be discourage but if you find yourself higher then you become conceited. Just play the cards right............

u must havelong term n short term goal..like me..my short term goal is to get a place in universities n get my driving license..while my long trem goal is to get a phd in 9 years and make my parents happy by dat.u must know what u want!!it is really crutial..

hi, I would say WOW!!! this should be something you have to think about now cuz if you spend all your time playing game is useless. but if those game pay off and make your life style living good then, good. However, it is not then you have to think what he asked you. let me try to explain what he asked. How to make friend? means: you have to make good friend with someone that have future life... not useless friend. doesn't mean all your friends are useless but some are cuz all they know just something that is not valuable. how do you do when someone ask you to do something that you want to do? I dont get this question. something you dont want to do? if this then you have to answer"NO, you do what you want to do and valuable". Do you know your advantage or dis advantage? lolz... doesnt make any sense here... If you want to make your life a little better than this... stop playing game and go out and do something that ur friend does

I think you should really take into consideration what you friend has told you. I am sure they are telling you this because as your friend, they feel its necessary to tell you when they notice you aren't living up to your full potential. Take this to heart, though. Don't turn it into something negative, but rather something positive. There is nothing wrong with realizing you have things to work on, that's just all part of life. You will never stop learning and growing as a person, the cycle is endless. I suggest you really sit down with yourself and maybe write out a list of ares which you need improvement in and go from there. Its better to have it right there in front of you so you have a place to start from. Good luck, and don't fret. There is always more room to grow. Everyone is imperfect, but can always better themselves. :)