should I take my mum away my hometown?
By meimeibaobei
@meimeibaobei (292)
China
April 26, 2010 8:38pm CST
my mum was injured last year.her right leg got hurt when she fell.and her left leg was hurt by a big stone when she sole the pig.my sisters and me were all outside at that time.so she had to cook for four kids and feed three big pigs,20 chicken.what is more,she did many farm work.the result of that is her legs hurts so far.now she left my hometown and lives with me in my workcity.i hope she could have a rest and keep her legs ok.but she is warrying about my sister(my sister is 36-old-years).i told her not to warry but she didn't fallow me.what should i do?my friends on mylot,could you give me any advice?thanks very much!
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
8 Jun 10
Hello mmbb. I am sorry to hear that your mother got hurt in the leg, but I am happy to know that you are taking good care of your mother though you have to work every day. You are really a very nice and kind daughter of your mother's, so considerate and thoughtful. It is understandable that a mother worries about any of her children, a kind of maternal love we can get from them. Now it is a month long since I read this discussion of yours. I hope that she is getting herself adjusted to the life in the city with you without worrying about so much. Enjoy your life!
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@meimeibaobei (292)
• China
9 Jun 10
williamjisir:
i am moved so much.thank you very much.i am sorry to tell you that my mom had gome home now.although she got more better since she came here,but she wasnot adjusted to the life in the city with me at last.and i can fellow her only and i can ask my sister to take care of our mom carefully and responsible.i hope my mom will be better in a short time.thank you very much for reading my discussion and care about me!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Apr 10
hi you are very young and maybe your older sister could help you
with your mom. Its very sweet of you to want to help her as she
has taken care of all of you and been injured so badly.Why not
get big sister to come see you and your mom so mom won't worry
so much about her. You did not tell us why your mom worries about
your older sister.Enlist your older sisters help with mom and
see it that will calm down your mom. You are very kind to think
about your mom. God bless you and keep you meimeibaobei.
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't@meimeibaobei (292)
• China
27 Apr 10
thank you for your advice so much!
now the problem is that my older sister can't come to see my mom and me.because she has two kids and they are at school.she has to look after them.you ask me why my mom worries about my sister.my sister's husband and she have been married for more than ten years.but so far they have no savings.now my sister is at home and looks after the kids,my brother in law is in another city.of course,my sister has no salary and my brother doesn't pay for his kids.my mom worries about the lives of my sister and her kids.no matter what i say to her,she is not very happy.now,i have no idea.could you help me and give me an advice? thank you very much!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Apr 10
I can see why your mom worries, I still worry about my own son and he is fifty and out of work.Someone has got to get through to your brother-In-law that those are his kids too and he must support them since he is working. Maybe you could help your mom by getting her to jump on this son in law of hers and tell him to get himself in gear and send money back regularly to your older sister for her and her children, maybe your mom is a little shy to say anything to the son in law, but in my yes he needs a verbal kick in the pants to get him going.Thanks for the best response , appreciated.
Someone has got to get through to your brother-In-law that those are his kids too and he must support them since he is working. Maybe you could help your mom by getting her to jump on this son in law of hers and tell him to get himself in gear and send money back regularly to your older sister for her and her children, maybe your mom is a little shy to say anything to the son in law, but in my yes he needs a verbal kick in the pants to get him going.Thanks for the best response , appreciated.@meimeibaobei (292)
• China
30 Apr 10
thanks for your advice!i will tell you a good news.my brother-in-law has sended some money back.although the number is not big,but it is enough for my older sister and her kids‘ daily expenses.i ask my mom not to worry about them and now her mood becomes more better significantly.i hope that she can live with me longer.thank you again.
