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India
April 27, 2010 4:42am CST
i saw one of my friends wife datting another guy.it was something like painfull to me as i wouldnt do it.i had done similar to such but not htis.hesitatingly i said it to him and what he said totlly surprised me.he said she was dating another friend of his.and the reason he told was that the other friend here had some problems in getting married and so he let his wife for the time being to love him.it like when he goes out and after her household is done she goes out with him and after some film watching or what so ever they get a hotel room booked and there he has her.i sked why would he do that and he asid ti was his best friend and his wife doesnt protest it.i told my wife about it and she said its new world and some do do it.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Oh my gosh! This then proves that I'm part of the 'old world!'. I would never do such a thing neither would I allow my husband to be a part of such a thing! Where's the sanctity of marriage and respect for the family?? That's absolutely absurd. They're actually luring future problems. I could remember a couple that I know. Though this is of less depth than the story you told me, they got addicted to chatting online - they had different accounts and would spend a lot of time online chatting with other people. I asked them about it since I had my fair share of online addiction and I don't think it's good that they do that because sooner or later there would be jealousy, untrust, and all sorts of problems - to which they answered 'no, we're okay with it because after a few years of marriage, we're now more of bestfriends'. A few months after the statement, the woman was packing her bags to leave because she said her husband has no more time for them and the family. It may be 'cool' or okay now. But soon it will cause friction between the relationship of the husband and wife because the husband may soon think that the wife prefers the other guy. I mean, there will always be envy and questions. I tell you, they are luring in problems in their stable marriage. No couple in the right mind would ever agree to such, even if it's something 'usual' these days.