love after marriage or love before marriage?

Hi mohondang. I think it is better if you know your partner well before you get married. As you know, marriage is about having commitment and long term relationship. Plus you also make a family with the partner. If you don't know the partner well, i think is is not easy to discuss on each issues arose in your marriage. There are pro and contra between both. And it depends on the person either to take a risk or not to. Gud Luck!!

hello! I think Love before marriage, for sure I will not marry the man I don't love. Yes you can learn to love the person once you live together but I guess it takes a long time before you reach your goal. I better marry the man I love and be responsible in everything I do to make our relationship more happy, so that our love will never fade...after our marriage. Hope I did help you in a simple way.

hello, love is a good thing it is important to happy life even it is before or after marriage but after marriage it will give better result.

hi,mohan,if both understood well about themselves in depth it is better to havea love before marriage..but if that is not too deep..fascination..attraction..then it is not advisable. However love after marriage is always safe..even if there may be chance of misunderstandings among the the elders will enter and set right the issues..it will not happened in the pairs who married without permission of elders..

Marriage is a sacred binding contract between a couple and the best rational/sane/humane reason to get married is that you really love someone and want to spend the rest of your days with him/her.