how can gain confidence?

@jobmoone (442)
Philippines
April 27, 2010 10:09am CST
All of my life I had been so alone. And I get to use of it. Later things aren't really good for me.
7 responses
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
20 May 10
You should first learn how to believe in yourself this is the right way that will help you gain confidence.Never give up something you want.Try as hard as you can and you will see that when you succeed in doing this thing you will feel proud of yourself and will start thinking of something more difficult and so on until you become a person that can estimate her/himself.
@worldview (105)
• India
13 May 10
There are various things that are going to shape the way that you develop self-confidence. You will find it to be hard to live with out having a certain level of self-confidence in your life. There are issues that we deal with all the time that will determine if we are living up to our full potential.
• China
27 Apr 10
What's wrong with you?dear friend,i think you may probably feel a little tired or something maybe you struggle to,hope you'll be ok soon.
• India
27 Apr 10
i am also alone in my life. we all are alone. we have a little help from people around us they may be family or friends but we are alone. one cannot buy confidence , not even gain it. you are having a lot of confidence in yourself but the pity is that you do not know it, i think that your loneliness is dominating your confidence, just clear away the loneliness part from your brain and i think you will gain confidence all by yourself without anyones' help.
• United States
28 Apr 10
I know how you feel... the sad thing is I'm not alone i have 2 kids and a husband but I can't stand myself... I want that to stop but I don't know how to either
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
jobmoone, the first step that you must do is to find your purpose in living then do it then you find confident to face tomorrow
@benny128 (3615)
27 Apr 10
the only way to gain confidence is yourself, I used to be bullied when I was at school and even early in my working life personally I thought one day why am I being a doormat and letting people walk all over me at the age of about 17 I changed my attitude and with a bit of hard work I turned the corner. I am now one of the most confident people you will meet people say I come across arrogant but I don't think I am, I am just happy with myself and if people don't like me tough he he he. So moral of the story YOU need to take control and believe in and nurture your own confidence because no one else will.