What do you get when you fall inLove?

This is real funny lol----i never found myself in such situation though but i would prefer to keep aside my personal things behind when it comes to the working hours---i would try to be like any other typical professional person.It doesn't mean that i completely ignore her ---she's got all the love in my heart and i'm pretty sure she would understand this and morever she gets lots of time to her make up too(my working hours can be utilized) ---atleast i dont have to see a pimple on her cheeks lol.I think your friend should be learning to manage her timings well.

Maybe this one is her first boyfriend? seems that your friend is really inlove. We should be happy for her. But you know she can tell with her boyfriend that she needs enough sleep, so they have to moderate chatting and calling each other everyday. We can't stop daydreaming though, whenever we think about someone special we are daydreaming already. If daydreaming makes her inspire to work well that is good, but if too much daydreaming do not meet her deadlines then that is bad. I hope she knows her limitation. Me, when I know I am inlove, i do daydream a lot too. When at work as much as possible I do not daydream. But I do it when I am bored. Sometimes I can't eat, one thing is for sure its hard to sleep. when I am inlove I do not get thin, infact I get so fat fast. Eventhough I can't eat sometimes, I still became fatter and I don't know why

For me you are blooming and inspired so cute about your life because it is full of stars in your eyes.

Hi Miss Cloud! Many! I am always happy.... I am always dreaming of her.... She's always on my mind for the time I wake up...Til I closed my eyes..She's everywhere I go..She's all I know. opssss.... It seems that I sing a song. . anyway.. Even this is a line from song, It is from the buttom of my heart... That's what I got when I'm Inlove....CRAZY....... Happy Mylotting and Have a nice day!1 GBU...

Being in love makes you happy. When you are happy or just the thought of it triggers your body to produce endorphins. Endorphins are the body's natural pain and stress fighters. Ref: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=55001 If you look young, calm, relaxed, healthy, energetic because you are happy you get the same if not twice as much when you fall in love. And obviously having a wife and a family doesn't stop me from falling in love over and over again. It's that top of the world feeling...

Hi miss c! The title of your topic reminds me of a song having that same line. Yes, the song has a good melody but I just don't like it's lyrics. The song is trying to imply that it's bad to fall in love coz you will just feel a lot of negative things in life, such as those mentioned in the song. The song is mainly for broken hearted people. Actually it is different from your friend's experience. I can say that your friend love her boyfriend very much (obviously) that's why she can't stop thinking of him and almost all her time was spending to his boyfriend. I can say it is normally happening in a couple who are deeply inlove to each other, spending almost all your time to your partner. Actually I have already experienced this myself. I can say if the one you love is really special, there's no reason not to fall so deep. Spending my time with my partner just means that I really care for her and I don't want to lose her. But of course there should be limitations. We should accept the fact that we are humans, we also have our body to take care of, it means we still need to sleep for enough hours, we should eat three times a day and we should keep ourself healthy. Actually when I'm inlove, I really wanted to look good and feel good. I eat a lot and exercise a lot, as well as cleaning myself much better. The only thing that I cannot usually do is to sleep for enough hours, they said we should sleep everyday for 8 hours, I cannot do that. For me before I go to bed, I would rather spend time first with my partner. Usually we spend time until later than midnight. In our situation, communication is really important which is just common in any other relationships. Well, for me, as long as you are happy and in love and you can still take of yourself, then there's nothing wrong about that. Feeling in love is really the best feelings that anyone can ever felt. Have a pleasant day miss c! Happy myLotting! :)

your friends lover sounds a bit possive. seems like she may need to take some time out for her self so she can relax. she should be glowing, if she's in love. not looking like someone you won't know. i used to love someone, but he's gone now and for the better as well. i've got one child with him, and put up with a lot for him. now all i can say is good ridence to bad rubish, and look forward to find a guy who will treat me right.

Ya, there is that googly inlove feeling. WHAT DO YOU GET WHEN YOU FALL INLOVE? You get enough germs to catch pneumonia. I lost sleep too as I recall but for different reasons. Hehehe. I got hurt alot and alot of hurt, confusion and I have one daughter to show for it as well. There are alot of good memories and some bad.

We may or may not get a lover when we fall in love but for sure we'll be unmanageable by ourselves. We'll be manic and uncontrollable. Sometimes it's a good thing but most of the time it's bad.

Morning,cloud! I felt very honey and excited when i fall inlove. i didn't like your friend,lol... Try her best to concentrate in her job and life. Have a nice day.

I get my wallet empty when I fell in love,I need to date her buy roses to her and shopped with her so now my I'm empty handed because of love.sigh!

When I felt in loved I don't get much exaggerated feeling I just want to see him everyday and wished he could come visit me that made me always happy.

When I first fell in love with my partner, I found myself randomly smiling a lot, whenever I thought of him. I never lost weight tho. And ha my face did break out in pimples one time from kissing him (he has facial hair that itches sometimes) Time while I was working felt like it would go slowly as I was just waiting for it to be over so I could see him. I would day dream a lot. I would get goosebumps and feel happy all over whenever we talked. I didn't get much rest either as we would talk late into the night. Honestly with him I felt complete. I felt like something had been missing my whole life and that he was it. I felt like I needed him near me always. We're living together very happily still today. I still get goosebumps too :) Oh and I sleep better now and I don't daydream as much ;p

I think that each person individually reacts differently to feelings of love/affection/infatuation..whatever the case may be. Your friends sounds like she isn't used to being in a really committed relationship and may not be able to handle the stress as well. Being in a committed relationship is hard work and falling in love is never just EASY, ya know. I know that when I first started dating my current boyfriend, it was an extreme transition for me. Everything changed from there. A lot of my free time was taken up by like you said..late night calls, webcam chats, and dates.etc. Its sometimes hard to balance a relationship especially when you have no clue what do to and are not very experienced. It took me a while to learn how to balance everything out, but eventually you just learn to adjust and be flexible. What I get when I fall in love...which I am in love RIGHT now hehe...is: Affection, less free time, extra stress(they are worth it trust me), another person who cares about me, and insurmountable amount of love and compassion, great life experience, special dates, and days in general, and a person who I can completely communicate with openly and honestly. The bound you form with the person you love is a very treasured and special gift. Hold onto love, don't ever let it go. :)

Well, i remember the most intense infatuation i had. It happened during high school. I was really obsessed with that person. He was all that i talked about if my friends would take the time to listen, lol. Im very happy when i see him. If i dont, my day is not complete. I was constantly combing my hair and putting face powder on my face during classes coz i know that there's a possibility that i will see him during break time or dismissal time. (coz he's a batch higher). It became so noticeable that i fix myself too much that the teacher sometimes confiscate my brush and face powder, lol. And i couldnt concentrate on my studies as well. That was the effect that it had on me. Not really nice. Lol. Thank god, that same level of obsessive infatuation never happened again, till now. But i miss that feeling though. Back then i felt so happy and elated. Sigh.

when we fall in love we get the happiness n pleasure all over the surrounding..u will be able to make friends with his or her friends..u can have good relation ship with them..u feeel the atmost pleasure when u fall in love with the one whom u thnk as the best pair

hi, when i fall in love, i see myself prettier and happy. i am very inspired and could just give my smile to anyone. it is always a nice feeling to fall in love, you feel beautiful and you look beautiful. i could not understand why your friend looks the opposite..

... you only get lies and pains and sorrows. that does sound familiar, my dear cloud? well, anyone falling in love or being in love should get the best out of that and not pains and sorrows, not even lies. but the thing is, most of the time the other way around is what one gets. but, i assure, there are also who get real joy, happiness and true love (in return) when they are in love. i am not a hopeless romantic, but i still believe in the goodness of being in love... also the joy in it... that is if we hold dear and practice unconditional love...

Hi mine was an arranged marrige 44 years ago, so no falling in love before marriage, but AFTER only, i love my wife so much, she loves me too, we are happy But what you speak of is true, people in love are 'mad in love', tell your friend to marry and get rid of this 'love-disease'. help them.. Thank you so much for this nice discussion, cheers God bless you. Prof

A good topic. Exactly, I am in the similar trouble. Yet, I also want to know that, what could I get? what shold i give? When I am off duty, I always miss her, but we are in different city, so I always keep me in considering my work, you see, sometimes it could not help. Sometimes I really do not know what can I do for this?