Do you share your sadness with your friend?
By sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
India
April 28, 2010 4:12am CST
It is very easy for us to share our happiness with all type of friends, but when we come to sad part we won't share all sadness things with all type of friends. So did you share your sadness feelings to your closed friend? if yes then can i know that sadness thing as one of your best, close, dearer friend.
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8 responses
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
28 Apr 10
I never share my sadness to other people, I just keep it for my self.While the thing that I share to my close friends was a happiness.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
29 Apr 10
Off course friend every one will share their happiness but if you share your sadness then you will get bit relax other wise you will be in depressed in that matter and it keeps you 2hours far from the happiness.
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I don;t share much about the sad parts of my life to my friends. I guess I don't mind keeping it mine. But I do share those with my boyfriend. he's really a great source of comfort and ally when sad things happen to me.
I actually have a different set of friends for different sorts of problems. haha
@Idealisticgirl (392)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
I am not used to share my feelings to others even to my friends. Just don't like to involve them in my problems.
@jewishgurl (98)
• United States
28 Apr 10
For me it depends on which close friends. I have certain close friends that I feel completely open to telling anything, and others that I don't feel as open telling my emotional feelings to. I prefer talking to my boyfriend or sister a lot of times about the painful things going on in my life. I sometimes even like just opening up to a complete stranger I have met online. Sometimes its easier for me to tell someone I don't know about a painful experience, rather then someone I do know. Because if the person I don't know judges me, then it doesn't hurt as much. But if the person I am very close to judges me, it stings a lot. This is why its always good to to make sure you are ready to tell someone about painful experience. Also be prepared to possibly be judged. Opening yourself up is a very healthy action though, and I try and do this more and more often nowadays.
@vivaciouschic (16)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Whenever I am sad, I share this to one of my closest friend who won't judge me but instead he tries to comfort me and look in a positive side. With that, I lessen my anxiety and try to think for other possibilities..
@itsgracieme23 (6)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
I seldom share sadness with a friend, I only choose when and what to share to a friend. There are sadness that are worth to be shared and worth to be kept especially to secretive people.
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
28 Apr 10
I dont like to share sadness with my friend.I p[refer to share my sadness with my life partner.I think she is the right person to share all my feelings.
@cthawa80 (42)
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28 Apr 10
I don't share my sadness to people. I don't like any sympathize from others. I rather keep it secret rather than share to others. But actually it is not good. You need to share to others if you feel sad because atleast some of sadness part had been released. Depend on what sadness thing you faced. Some people can mange it well even alone. Some cannot, some need people to listen to them.