How can people be attractive if he is not handsome or she is not pretty ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
April 28, 2010 11:48am CST
Once awhile,I saw some T.V. stars or movie stars in the entertainment news.Frankly speaking,not all of them are handsome guy or pretty girl.But there are just something in those person who can be attractive or just look good on the camera.I don't know what?Maybe you can tell me about your opinion ?Are those people just have enough self-confidence or they know how to react in front of the public ? Or they are jsut so natural that they just can attrac people like that.Share with us.
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@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
29 Apr 10
Hi, there are many people out there who are neither good-looking in appearance nor attractive in figure, but they can successfully attract people's attention with other qualities, such as unassuming, enriched in mind and soul, abundant in knowledge, bright etc. In our real life, people actually look for more about these inner qualities than physical attraction, espeically in girls. They may not be beautiful and sexy, but they MUST be bright to make themselves attractive.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
29 Apr 10
Hello,I think you got a good point in here.Inner qualties are a must for any attractive person whether they are male or female.I have seen some very pretty girl and they will lost all their attraction after they open their mouth and speak like a really noisy person.Same as some good looking man if they keep on swearing all the times when they speak,they will lost all their attraction as well.It is because the inner qualities they have don't match with their outlook ,no amtter how good looking they are.That's why,I think I can at least conclude that inner beauty is the quality that can attract people more than their outlook.I think some of those star has bsuch a quality in Hollywood even they are not really good looking.I think we really need to develope our inner quality by acting like a human in today's world.I think it is not esay at all but it is essential in today's world.I hope we all can grow in our own inner beauty and make us more attractive to others everyday whether we are good looking or not.Because we got to live like human.Have a good day chenxiaoyue_713 ^_^.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
29 Apr 10
That's right. Inner qualities count a lot. They reflect more about a person than appearance does.
@dpalais (130)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
hello wildlittlefan,you add sylvester stallon in your discussion.Don't you find him handsome,do you? My mother is one of his avid fan. According to her Sylvester had talent on projecting its character as if it is really happening I think artist look good and attractive only if they fit to the characters they portrait. Imagine if Sylvester act like a comedian,disgusting isn't it?
For me a person could also be attractive if this person is intelligent,or kind hearted,or possess any good traits that people is looking for.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
29 Apr 10
I don't think Slyvaster Stallon is handsome and in fact I always feel that he looks like a comedian and always make me laugh.But I think he is a man with character and personality .Of course he got talent and a tough image too.That's why he is so success.He always act like a person who is weak at the beginning and then getting very strong at the end of most of his movies such as Rocky and Rambo.I do like his image and movies.Although some people may think that it was too violent ,but I feel that at least he will encourage to fight and don't give up easily.It is this kind of hope in his movies that will help the weak people in this tough world to be strong at all times.That's why he is an attrative movie star from what he act in the movies.Well, I think he is geetring old now,but still his movies is already a part of our memory.Have a good day.
@dierdre (2207)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
Alot of factors can contribute to make the person look attractive. Attitude, appeal, how they dress, make-up, humor, social status, etc. But since were talking about hollywood stars, its talent for sure that made them stars if they are not goodlooking. Just look at morgan freeman and lawrence fishburne, they arent handsome at all but they're stars. Talent is what you need to have plus some luck as well if you want to be a star.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
29 Apr 10
People don't always see the same things in people when it comes to being attractive. Being handsome or being considered pretty does not always mean that someone is attractive. Being attractive is not something to really be seen from the surface. When you are attractive, it can be seen from what is inside you.
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
28 Apr 10
Good evening dear Wildlittlefan , well this is really a tough question too answer too , hence myself i dont consider myself an atractive person , but never then less i dont think the looks its what it trully matters when you are searching to have a healthy love relationship with a woman or a man , i have found the love of my life three years ago and we are planing the wedding for the next year in month of June , and when i asked her what she saw in me that atracted her , she said the fact that i make her laugh ( at starts ) and the fact that we are communicating every time we think that there might be something wrong or that it bothers us , and we sort it out , off course this demands that both of us to make sacrifices sometimes but this is how it goes in a relationship , dont worry if you trully know what you want from a woman/boy you will find the right person for you.
Have a nice day dear Wildlittlefan
@eidoj31 (23)
• United States
29 Apr 10
simply put, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is attractive to one person is not attractive to another. Human beings are often attracted to what is on the inside, not the outside, after all beauty is only skin deep.
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
29 Apr 10
There's a saying that "A pretty face will attract someone,it's personality that'll make them stay". The Beautiful people look good in the gossip magazines or on the screen,(Especially if they're Models,but they don't get to talk to the public while they're working,and you're talking about Actors and Actresses,right?) but it's their talent,abilities and personality that will keep them working and in the public eye.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
being charming and having a lot of appeal plus oozing confidence could make a person attractive although they are not handsome or beautiful. it is something within them that could attract people. and that's what more actors/actresses got with them.
@piya84 (2580)
• India
29 Apr 10
wildlittlefan
Being attractive is a art.Confidence,braveness,coolness reflect in facial expressions and in body language.Its much more how you carry yourself than whats your height and how is your nose.
There is something call sense of dressing as well.these all people who are in acting profession know what look good on their body very well.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
29 Apr 10
To me people who may not necessarily be handsome or beautiful have a personality that is so great it shows there inner beauty from inside. I agree there are alot of people in Hollywood who are not what you would call beautiful but they have the charisma and pose that makes them likable.
@lmcueva (169)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Try improving posture. It works all the time (I know it does for me). There's a lot of reasons behind this, and maybe what you think is attractive is different from others' preferences. Some actors can do away with a really nice smile, good humor, and not to forget a handful of stylists who earn their living by making the actors look their best from head to toe.
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
28 Apr 10
Hello wildlittlefan,
It could be smarts, there personality, or how there makeup is done compared without it on the weekend etc.. It could be there connections as they grew up and how there parents handle themselves. So many variables can go into this question
Thanks and Have a great night
Sincerely Unique16
@art719pinoyguide (342)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
There are so many reasons for that. Came from famous clans. Intelligent and smart. Rich and famous. Talented.
