How Many Two Faced Friends Do You Have?
By powermannx
@powermannx (450)
United States
4 responses
@cindystoufflet (299)
• United States
28 Apr 10
None because if they are 2 faced to someone else they will be that way to you. In my 49 years I have only one true friend. we have been friends for 30 years. I know if i ask her a question the truth will come out of her mouth. No matter if she thinks it will hurt my feelings or not. If I am her true friend I will not take the truth as a put down. I know that in her heart that she is telling me for my own good. And also as a true friend she does not get upset if I don't take her advice. We are indiviuals as well as friends and we accept each other that way. So If you cant be honest with someone you probably are not good friends.
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@powermannx (450)
• United States
28 Apr 10
I do agree with you on the value of one of a kind friendship, I am 49 years old also, and I have found that a wife, husband, and even a family member can be considered as a true friend.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Apr 10
I wouldn't consider anyone that I know that is two-faced to be a friend. These people are acquaintances to me and nothing more. There is no one like this that I would share my dreams with and my hopes and even the struggles that I am facing in my life. The reason that I feel this way is that I know that they would turn around and share the information with other people that I may not want it to be shared with. So, the short answer to your question is that I don't have any two-faced friends and I honestly feel that I have very few friends in the true spirit of friendship.
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@powermannx (450)
• United States
28 Apr 10
I think this topic has brought out how everyone feels about true friends, and you do make a valid point about the value of true friendship.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Apr 10
hi powermannx none if they were two faced then they would not be my friends as I am very choosy with whom I make friends so no two faced
friends for me. I have a few really good friends and a lot of acquaintances. But that is good enough for me. Some real friends are
all one needs.
@powermannx (450)
• United States
28 Apr 10
I also have many acquaintances, but only 2% of them I would call true friends, people of integrity that I have known for many of years. One thing that many people fail to realize, a person would automatically assume just because you have known someone for many of years that they are a true friend. Personally I believe that a true friend is someone who stands by your side through the good times and the bad.
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
28 Apr 10
No one who is "two-faced" is a real friend. So I have to say that none of us have any two-faced friends! Anyone who is like that is not a true friend.. so I have zero.
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@powermannx (450)
• United States
28 Apr 10
Very true, but I have known people that call their two faced friends a friend due to that person may be just like their two faced friend, just like gossip mongers who flock together.
