Do you agree that Men has to be dominant than Women?
By nafmdt
@nafmdt (40)
Philippines
April 28, 2010 8:16pm CST
In many relationship, men do always wants to get dominant than women. Well, i guess thats the way it has supposed to be. But as a woman who deserves to be dominant because of her strong characteristics than for her man, who knows nothing. Does woman has the right to take over?
1 person likes this
8 responses
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
2 May 10
for a relationship to be blissful,both should know how to be dominant.when a man is more dominant than a woman,the relationship may come to being abusive, since the man dictates all the things in their relationship.if the woman is more dominant, this may rise feeling of resentment for the man, since he feels his ego and masculinity is being stepped upon by a woman.
1 person likes this
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
2 May 10
I believe that God has created us,Man and woman is not different in human right. But maybe different in duty and task. For me, My dad or may husband is our leader at home. It does not mean that they are dominant. We are complete and support each other.
1 person likes this
@naka75 (795)
• Singapore
29 Apr 10
I do not it will lead to a healthy relationship if the man and woman become husband and wife. This means that the man does not bother to understand his partner or vice versa. Without patience or understanding I do not think things can go well. There is no sincerity or trust in each other. My senior tells me that real love exist in two persons who can feel secure about their individuality, not one having to dominate over another.
@maidangela7349 (1191)
•
29 Apr 10
It is no good asking me I am heavily into dominant women. I have worked for a number of them as a maid.
1 person likes this
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
i think the being dominant in a relationship is not a good sign. but for a woman to be more submissive to his husband, and for the husband, as a head of the family, to be more decisive and loving, should be the thing.
1 person likes this
@nafmdt (40)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Hi churchill1980! Thank you for the respond. As for the husband to have a right to be dominant is that he must know how to protect, lead, and be the guide for the family. He knows how to take decision and to cope on any challenges the family may face. He must be strong enough to carry all the problems they will be facing in their day to day lives.
1 person likes this
@ttzhu111 (51)
• China
29 Apr 10
Good morning,nafmdt.It's an interesting topic.DifferentThe situation in different family is virous,man and woman play different roles.So it's really hard to say who has to be dominant in a family.A harmony family is based on different division of the couples.Man and woman can both be dominant in different station.
Have a great day,nafmdt^_^
1 person likes this
@nafmdt (40)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Hi ttzhu111! Thank you for your respond. Yes, it depends on the family's situation and how the couple will talk about things about who has to lead the way for any specific matters. There is always a division of responsibility and one has to cooperate. That factor will lead to a happy and harmonious family.
1 person likes this
. But I support to it 
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 10
I think in a relationship, its something like push and pull. I don't think a couple who are both dominant could be happy because they would quarrel way too much. I do agree that some men are just too soft and submissive. Either way, its something that the couple would most probably have to work on.
1 person likes this
@nafmdt (40)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Hi catalyser! Thank you for your great respond. I agree with you, in a relationship, being both dominant may lead to quarrel and misunderstanding. Listening effectively to your partner is one of the most important thing the relationship must have. Yes, they are men are just too soft and submissive but that doesn't mean they are not dominant, they just do know how to give way for her partner to let her lead in some ways because he has a trust on her.
1 person likes this
