why are we possessive on our lover?

Mutual attraction and mutual attention are key elements in a love lock. Any thing against these makes one highly insecure and it is expressed through possessiveness..

Because she completes you..once you find your other half you don't want to let it go ever... but at the same time you can't smother her because it will push her away.. I promise..

Hi there Vishkris! I think that it's mainly because a lover isn't meant to be shared. Well, some go overboard and sometimes destroy the relationship by being too jealous and too possessive but sometimes, those people have deeper problems, insecurities with themselves and they are being too cautious not noticing that they are hurting their other half in the process.

love is blind brother.. didnt know why we choose her