friend or foe?????

India
April 29, 2010 10:20am CST
you love your friend's more than anything else you live with them,share your life and they are everything for you but sometimes these same friends are waiting to pull your leg and make you feel worst,they will act as if nothing has happened but on the other side they were planning for it from months,i know there are friends who will just give anything else but there are other kind of friends also.beware.
4 responses
• United States
29 Apr 10
A true friend is someone that knows that you have to be your own person.They dont judge you or try to change you.They accept you for who and what you are and stand by you no matter what.They may not always agree with choices that you make but they stand behind you even when you make a bad choice.They never give you the infamous ultimatum"it's me or them"just because you have friends they dont like and they dont get jealous or petty just because you have other friends besides them.They may try to offer you the best advice possible if you have a problem or a hard decision to make but they know the choice has to be yours and yours alone.They are there no matter what and a true friend can end up being closer to you than your own blood family members.
• India
4 May 10
you gave the perfect definition of a good friend you may be having many i think so.........but sometimes there are peole who just act and stab you out.
• United States
4 May 10
This is true.However,those that are not true friends always say or do things that give them away in some way before they can do to much damage.All you have to do is read the signs.it may be little things like little white lies here and there,or they get a bad attitude if you speak to other ppl and they are not the center of your attention.Just little things that make you begin to doubt their sincerity.Somehow I get the feeling that you are having these doubts about someone that you really and truly considered a true friend.Ifthis is the case,then confront them about it and let them know how you feel.Don't worry about hurting their feelings because they obviously are not concerned with yours.In the end,if they turn out not to be the person you thought they were and you end the friendship,they are the loser not you.As long as you are the best and truest friend that you can possibly be to others,then the ones that betray you and your trust are the ones that lose out on a beautiful thing and are not worth your time.There are ppl out ther that need and want true friends not users.Don't give up hope,just dump the losers inyour life.
• China
4 May 10
for me,i often live those friends who i guess will pull my leg.i can't let them make me fell worst.even if i have a few friends because of this.i willnot be regretful. blessing!
@Grat15 (439)
• Singapore
30 Apr 10
I agree with your opinion. There are some people who could take advantage of their friends. Even they had planned long ago. People like this don't deserve to be friends. Therefore, we should be able to judge people who will be our friends, how sincere they are.
@Grat15 (439)
• Singapore
30 Apr 10
I agree with your opinion. There are some people who could take advantage of their friends. Even they had planned long ago. People like this don't deserve to be friends. Therefore, we should be able to judge people who will be our friends, how sincere they are.