you encounter someone who hurt you so terribly that you don't want to forgive?
By viviya
@viviya (88)
China
April 29, 2010 10:29am CST
did you encounter someone who hurt you so terribly that you don't want to forgive?i did. actually,i am unable to forgive him even today. It was a hard time for me. looking back on that horrible days,i still can't recover myself from it.
4 responses
@portisray (503)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Hello prince05! That is correct... It depends on how deep the wound is... And if your the guy were talking to here in viviya's post (even if we don't know the reason how horrible what he did to viviya's)... I will never forget you....Add me as friend will you? lol
@picjim (3002)
• India
29 Apr 10
I did once encounter one such person at a wedding.He was civil with me and i reciprocated.It wasn't something i looked forward to but was unavoidable.I keep telling myself no point delving into the past as it serves no purpose.At a younger age its more difficult but now i'm in middle age and having encountered many difficult moments in life this was one of them.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Yes i too have been there and you and i both know that it's wrong to be unforgiving. If God can forgive then we too have to forgive. Unfortunately for me, i don't see that person anymore but deep down, i've forgiven him for what he's done.
@portisray (503)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Hello viviya! You didn't even elaborate into what this guy did to you... Into those horrible days you've been with him... SO that all mylotters here who read your post will know into what level of unforgiveness he did to you...
But if you don't want to talk about it..that's fine... Time heals all wounds... Even if there's a scar, its a sign for you that you learned, made stronger and a proof that your alive and exist in this world...
