which life is happy

You said it yourself. Some people gets happy before marriage and some gets happy after. I think it depends on the people whether they want to get happy or not. If you want to be happy, then try to be one. You will be the one to decide. You can be happy before and after marriage if you just want to. If loving someone makes you happy, then love that person as much as you want. In return, he or she will love you too.

You said it yourself. Some people gets happy before marriage and some are after. I think it depends on the people whether they want to get happy or not. If you wants to be happy, then try to be one. You will be the one to decide. You can be happy before and after marriage if you just want to. If loving someone makes you happy, then love that person as much as you want. In return, he or she will love you too.

i feel happier when i have not married. everything was just fine. friends, family, boyfriend were perfect in my life. but life goes on. i have to deal with problems after marriage. but that makes me grow wiser .

Right now i'm happy to be not married cuz i'm not married yet. Maybe i'll be happy too when i'm married.

I feel that marriage has nothing to do with happiness.Happiness depends on the individual,if he or she is happy person and choose a right person for themselves then they are going to be happy after marriage also.Well i would agree that marriage makes an individual responsible but happiness is a different thing. You said that some people become happy after marriage,its because they choose the right partner for themselves.Well others who are happy before marriage specially male and after marriage not happy,its because they can't handle the pressure of marriage and responsibilities. So if an individual is ready to marry then only he or she should go for it otherwise it could lead to disaster in their life. take care bye

i'm happy at the moment of my life.surely the will always be some obstacle in any corner of my life but i overcome it positively.i've been in a worse case scenarion and needless to say sometimes i do feel unhappy about my life..about the sacrifices i had to make.but in the end,everything is worth it.have a happy day!!

To me happiness is a state of mind...I was married and I was happy...now Im alone and I Am happy too!...I guess Im just the sort of person that makes the environment I live in every day a happy one...thru diferent activities and contact with friends... I just try[ and do] look at life in a positive way nothing is never so bad that can't be fixed...and if can't be fixed just let it go!

i luv married life. God has blessed me with a wonderful christain husband. we have 3 girls & 2 grandsons. my husband is my best friend.

Life is a mixture of good and bad incidents. So, I don't think I can judge if life is happy before or after marriage. There are lots of nice incidents that happened in my life before and after marraige. There are irritating incidents happened both before and after marraige. Basically, I like the life when I started deciding things on my life. I mean when I had the full control on my life. I don't think about the irritating or uninteresting things happened. I only think about the nice things and believe many great things are going to happen in my life.

I am not married so I have no personal experience but what I have observed around me, I think I am happy unmarried.

Everybody is happy at different stages of their life. Depends on what kind of person you are and it depends whether you want to be with someone or be alone. If you are the kind of person that is always asking I wish I could meet somebody then I would imagine you would be happier in married life.

Personally I'm very very happy to be married and don't miss my life much before marriage. I did at the start, but I've learnt to appreciate all the good things about marriage. I guess part of it is marrying the right person, or even if you don't get the choice it is good to make the best of the situation you are given unless it is very bad.

Personally I'm very very happy to be married and don't miss my life much before marriage. I did at the start, but I've learnt to appreciate all the good things about marriage. I guess part of it is marrying the right person, or even if you don't get the choice it is good to make the best of the situation you are given unless it is very bad.

I was happy before marriage and now as well. Its all about state of mind and adopting the things. When I was single I used to enjoy different activities now its family life and that is going good. Both are completely different but have close relation, both are based on the circumstances of the life. Happy single and married life :)

well it depends upon the situation, there are rich man, abundant in resources whose daughter have change it to a poor man, just because she love the man, she left her being princess just to be with the man.. There are also maiden who is so much ambitious, who in his young period she was mocked and teased by many and when she got married to a foreigner her life now become better so we couldn't really respond as to which life is happy.

I admit I subscribe to the theory that life is pretty much what you make it, and happiness is as much about your attitude in the situation you are in. On the best of days, Marriage is a very difficult thing. But if you get with a good person, and you both put in the effort to make marriage what it should be, it can be an entire life of happiness. I read about a love note, so sweet and affectionate, and deep. Anyone would have assumed it was from a young 20 year old wife missing her husband as he went on a trip. In fact she was late 60s, 67 I think, and he was in his 70s. That's real love, and real happiness. But that takes sacrifice and commitment, and dedication to doing things the right way. The bottom line is most do not do that, and thus Marriage isn't all that happy. So are you going to do what it takes? Are you with someone who going to do what it takes? Those are the questions that will determine which will be a more happy way to live.

Happiness for me is balance after an event that made your life completely out of balance. It is not rewarding if all your life, you've been living a life of a mediocre. It has to be nasty first and then comes in balance where everything just falls into place. I was happy when I was single. And there were also times when I was extremely depressed when I was still a bachelor. Now that I am married, I there are still times I feel that way.

Happiness comes from one's self and not from external influence It all depends how you and your partner take the married life, treat each other with love and compassion. Some people are quite unsure of their course of action. They never want to try some thing new, totally afraid of the aftermath. That's why they remain happy before marriage. One hand cannot produce a sound, so does a partner. When the other partner is fully understanding, loveable, adjustable to the short falls, ya, sure one is happy after marriage. I belong to the second category. I love my wife and my married life. After all, marriage only develops progeny in a legitimate way.

I for one cannot relate to this question since I am not yet married but when I put some thoughts into it, I would really like to live a bachelor life for a while before committing myself to a family. I do not know if this outlook would change as I grow older but as of now, I think it would be a while for me before I would ever think of marriage.

No much difference.