You can say,;to hell with the past sad"or ," life goes on"!!!
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
April 30, 2010 4:11pm CST
Have you ever said those words, have suffered and have remained in pain?
What was the path that you followed? staying on in the past?
What is the best solution file for you in a moment when you don t know what to do with your past, you can not manage your future?
Go ahead and say ; tomorrow is a new day or you will stay anchored in the past?
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4 responses
@Neicy30 (56)
• United States
30 Apr 10
Living in the past will only lead you to living in the dark. The past is your past for a reason. We all go through hardships and alot of us have pasts that we choose to forget and others that just can't get "past" it. The only way to live a happier life is to let go of the past enough and move foward. In our pasts are always a lesson to be learned but we don't see it until we move on. Who we are back then is not who we are now. Some people are still the same but the best thing to do is to learn from your past, grow from it and become a better and wiser person. Living for today and tomorrow will always bring you sunshine into your life. Living in the past will always leave you in the dark! Good Luck.
@Neicy30 (56)
• United States
1 May 10
Hey Joannaleed!
I agree. We have to accept our pasts for what it WAS! The phrase "Life goes on" has a reason and purpose for it. For those that get it are the ones who are able to live happier lives. It truly makes us stronger beings. When you are able to sit back and evaluate a situation and learn from it then you won't ever allow it to happen again. That's called growth, strength and wisdom. Life is way too short to be stuck in the past when tomorrow is always a brighter day. It's a mindset and having a positive mindset will always get you further than dwelling on the past and thinking negative!
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
1 May 10
Hi Icesmile,
I've been lucky in that I am pretty easily able to pull myself out of a slump when things have gone bad for me. I hate hate hate feeling down and out and so I make it a goal to find a way to be at peace and find some happiness despite whatever is going on in my life. It's not that I don't allow myself to face and deal with the pain because I do. I just won't let it run my life. If you stay caught up in the things that caused you pain then you will be apt to overlook other things that can bring happiness. Sometimes just getting out and going for a walk or being around other people that are happy is enough to get my mind off my own problems for a while.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
1 May 10
The past is gone and done with but not forgotten. I never live in the past not do i mope and moan but try to learn from my mistakes and see that i do not repeat them in the future. Actually there is neither a past nor a future but only the present as when every second ticks by it becomes converted from the future to the present to the past.don`t think about the future, it will take care of itself, do your best in the present and wait for the outcome.Live like this and you will never be sad.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
I've said that but there's a better of healing the past. Try googling 'nlp trauma/phobia cure'.
