I am Single

India
April 30, 2010 10:10pm CST
I love being single..no ones there to handle my life.. i am the owner of myslef!! can flirt anyone i like...how do u guys feel being single or arent u single!!
9 responses
• United States
8 Aug 10
Lol well after reading a few posts I just see people wanting to be single just for the kicks of flirts and making babies with countless chicks, I don't really care so much about that but being single DOES benefit for being in more freedom depending on how it goes, if your partner just keeps dragging you all around, then yeah talk freedom :D well for me rather be single than deal being in a community where girls don't know what the definition of a relationship is so yeah, seen to many girls only caring about there benefits than having to actually love someone if you really try to read them with more effort.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
5 May 10
I am single. I'm not happy about being single, but I don't want to be with someone just because. I'm waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right. I figure I'll just stay single until I find them, it's seem better than just going with Mr. or Ms. Wrong (again).
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
1 May 10
I'm married and yup, I think being single is great, though I didn't know or felt it when I'm single heeheehee. Being married, well, there's just so much expectation and responsibilities. You just can't do as you like, you have to consider so many people's feelings.There's just endless burdens haha and you have to do so many things for your family, children, spouse, ahhhhh. And it's not like with yourself, you know what's correct and what should be done and of which you would have done, but being married, you have to continuously tell your children what to do and they don't do, and your spouse, also don't heed your advice, ahhhhh. So getting married to some, they would say "open your eyes before marriage, but close and (it's both eyes not one) after marriage!" Being single is great except maybe lonely but I think that's how you occupy yourself. So to those that can be independent and knows how to live life to the fullest without waiting for others to plan for them how to be happy, life is definitely better being single. And yup, flirt... I had always wished I am a boy since young cos can flirt, but I'm born a female, sob. So I'm very conservative. LOL
@piya84 (2580)
• India
1 May 10
Hiii prateek I am not married yet and i think there are some advantages and disadvantages of being single.But its far better than married.we Indians have more stuff to deal with than western crowd as many of us have closely bind families and apart from kids there is scary thing called in laws to deal with.
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
1 May 10
Way to go looking at the bright side of being single. All that is true of course. I however, like it better when I have somebody because she gives me the inspiration to do more and try harder.
• Nepal
4 May 10
yea yea its cool to b single!!! lyk no those irritatin relationship troubles... "he doesn't lyk tis" "she is upset" n all!!! lyk y cant ppl jus remain gud frenz...n once u re in relationship u re seriously in it!! i theenk thts d best wait fo' d perfect 1 fo u to go into a relationship!! (^_^)
• Philippines
1 May 10
i can't say i'm loving it, it's just that i am not really thinking of the status of my love life.^_^ i'm busy thinking about what i really want to do and what career should i pursue. it's been really frustrating because i'm already 27. ahahahah... i've been through 3 types of job already (i've only worked after college graduation) but i can't find satisfaction from any of it and it had become apparent in my parent's point of view so they decided i should go back to school. they made me quit my last job and currently i'm taking another course, a business course this time (social science before) but i'm not liking it either. i especially took this summer vacation (didn't took summer classes and will not look for a job yet) to think through and i'm fortunately making progress.^_^ right now, i am not seeing a future of me in a relationship. i don't think about getting married either. but i knew in my heart i wanted to raise a baby someday although i'm scared of delivering a child.
• Philippines
1 May 10
I am single and I love every minute of it.in my group of friends,I am the only one who is single.I love it.I enjoy it.I take care of myself well.I can go anywhere I choose and when I want to.single is more fun than being in a relationship.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
1 May 10
well,you can say that,prateek! as for me,i'm also single and it's an advantage not to mind other problems regarding with someone you love.but at times,i also feel that i feel all alone,when something's wrong i have no one to turn on to.specially now,my ex boyfriend is one of my best friends and whom i can always depend on. but now that we're living in our own lives,sometimes i feel sad not having him as my companion! shoulder to cry on,cause i know he's always there to make my day a little brighter! so sometimes,i feel like hoping that someday i'll meet my dreamguy who'll love me for being me!