loving someone while apart

Hello! My husband and I were so far from each other for almost four years. We only got to see each other once a year, while maintained communications over the phone and the internet. It was hard, but I think the time we spent together was even more quality and memorable simply because every moment together counts. I did miss him from time to time, and I felt we miss so much happenings of each other's lives. But I was confident that we are meant for each other and that the right time and place would come for us. True enough, we just tied our knot last month, and so far, everything is seemingly perfect for us. I suggest you find ways to ease the feeling of loneliness. Find more time with the things that make you happy and enjoy. In that way, although you miss your man, still you do not deprive yourself of being happy, even without his physical presence. So long as you know that the love between you is true, then there is something you hold onto that one day, in the right time and place, you'll be in each other's arms again.

If you truly love your man,You can endure all the circumstances that is happening now in your life.I can't blame you if you feel that you are tired of waiting and tired of being alone.We are just human beings we need love and care from a person who can be there when we needed him most. You said that your man is in jail,that is one reason that you are tired of being alone because temporarily maybe you cannot be together.One thing is you examined yourself if you still love him and you can wait for him.If you realized that you don't love him anymore,then it's time to let go,don't waste your time on the things that you feel you will never be happy.

you need to go and visit him. i think it will help you lessen the feeling of loneliness when you are by yourself alone. also, i think you need to try to write her letters too... maybe put your feelings in letter to help you lessen the heavy feeling you have right now.

Hello Ms. Smith... I have been away from my love for many months... I know how you feel... Please don't lose your faith in Love and the Almighty... Your man will return to you. Sometimes, our feelings and faith is simply tested by the God and we should remain true to our dear ones, at such times... Please don't lose faith and energy, he will return to you soon... Take care...

What you are feeling is only normal, what did you expect from yourself. Give yourself a break emotions don't respect reality.

hi vsmith, Sorry to hear this from you. It is a sad feeling indeed but true love can conquer this loneliness in your heart. Keep your faith in God and just have a strong belief that someday you and him will be together. What you feel is normal because you love your partner. You can visit him so not to miss him much. Send him letters. I know that, that will make your bonding with him stronger. I and my boyfriend have been in our relationship for more than 2 years. We are happy with each other despite the fact that it is more than 2 years that we are in this long distance relationship. It is a terrible thing being apart with your partner but I believe that everything happens for a reason. This is just a test on how we love each other. Many of my friends doubt our relationship but we not lose hope. We communicate with each other as much as we can. We are both busy but then we still find time to talk with each other even for few hours. We exchange emails.He sometimes calls me on phone. Before it makes me so sad being apart with him but now,I am no longer sad. I just hold on with our love for each other.