Wedding Ring Lost

It wouldn't really make any difference to me. Its just an object, objects get lost all the time. Unless you think he's deliberately 'lost' or sold it, I dont see any point in worrying yourself over it. Though, in any case, its his ring to do what he likes with (IMHO). I'd just say I was sorry he'd lost it and let it go. I dont know where mine is.

I probably would feel the same way you are feeling now. Of course it has a sentimental value to both of us. I felt really upset when my wife misplaced our ring. But I have come to realize that it's better to lose that ring than lose the person it self.

I personally have no connection to objects. I am not a typical sentimental female though. I am very happy to have my husband. He does not wear his ring, he only wore it the day I put it on his finger and maybe one time since. It is in his dresser. I wear my own wedding band without removing it at all. I know that if I were to ever take it off mine would be lost. I know my husband thoroughly though. I know that ring means nothing to him. It was a symbol at our wedding, placing the rings but the rings themselves are not the symbol. The act of placing them and saying those words telling each other and our guests that we pledge our lives to each other is where the meaning is. It's in our hearts. I don't worry about a cheaters heart because that's not my husband. I am not his first wife and I know he has no issue with divorcing if he no longer feels that pledge is valid. He would never pretend to still be devoted to me as he was seeing anyone else.

wow that is a very valuable thing you ever have..i think you have just misplaced so try to look for it so that you wont find reason to replaced that very special thing for you.. I couldn't help myself but sorry if your wedding ring was lost..where did you order you wedding ring., maybe the jewelry store could still remember the ring which you have bought and in this reason the pain in your heart will be lesen.

In my situation my husband lost his wedding ring within a week of our wedding. His work is a very dirty, greasy environment and his ring fell off his finger. I did hear afterwards from previous co-workers (as we used to work together) that he searched and searched for hours and was very upset at work that I was goign to kill him. When he came home that night from work he was so upset that I felt so sorry that i could not be mad at him. We do have a running joke in our house that i buy wedding rings in bulk as I have bought him 3 in total. The first which was lost, the replacement of that was found to be of not real gold and he had a very bad reaction to it and the last he keeps at home and only wears for special occassions. I have never spent much on any of the rings I am an ebay fanactic so it is not that huge of an issue. i can understand that if the ring cost a lot that it can be very upsetting to have lost something that had emotional and finanical value. From being with my husband for 13 years i have found that he express different emotions then i would in situations. He can be defensive when I would be apologetic, angry when i would be sad etc. I do get a little annoyed that he does not wear his ring all the time but i understand his reasoning. My annoyance is more that people (women) will not see that he is married (and mine) and want him. But thining logically thousands of people could want him but he only wants me and thats all the matters in the end.

So, go out and replace the ring. Take to your pastor and ask him to bless it again. Simple. the replacement ring doesn't have to cost much either... it's only a symbol. Over a year ago, I took my ring off to apply self tanner and when I picked it back up, I dropped into the toilet as it was flushing! My beautiful rose cut diamond wedding band was gone forever! boo-hoo! I am still heartbroken. But, we replaced it with another pretty ring. My husband wasn't mad at all...

Sounds as if you two have a severe lack of trust going on. When I was married, my husband did not wear his ring most of the time because he worked construction and it was dangerous. I didn't really care. If he'd lost it, well, things happen. Sounds to me as if there is more going on between the two of you than just the lost ring.

lay826, If the relationship must fail; let it be the will of fate... not the will of man. I just cannot help sensing that you are both accumulating and amalgamating everything your frustrations, husband's wrong doings, disappointments and now his wedding ring. Wedding ring? Really? If you are having visionary plans to pursue this relationship adamantly, you will surely encounter endless obstacles along the way. I am not saying this to discourage you from loving the man you have chosen, but rather, to set you on the correct mindset first and picture reality, without having to love while reveling in delusion. There's only one way if you desire to love the way you want - that is to banish traditions and demonstrate your inexorable ideals in love - which is by having to succeed solely with the power of love against all odds and most of all above all conventions. If you do not have the inner strength to take on such daunting challenges, I would suggest just forget about this whole thing because your relationship will never be a bed of roses until you overpower traditional and conventional ideologies. The minute you slacken - you will lose this war rapidly and your relationship will start to disintegrate like vampire to sunlight. Comparing to other 'conventional' relationship - it is almost like you have twice the area to defend, with half the troops available. You can degenerate this relationship to societal pressure and appease the majority, but when your regrets start to sink in like viscous goo, nobody will share your emotional torment; you will live with the consequence of your choice. So, this is your choice where I hope that you take one step at a time and step away from conventionalism. The ring is significant but the imperfections of humans are significantly blatant as well. With your man, it's for a lifetime. Take care.

Well I think it depends really. I mean if your man works in an office or a clean environment, then perhaps I guess you could be angry because he does not have a good enough excuses to not wear it. Like my hubby actually can not wear a ring to work as he will just damage it with the work he does. I did get him a cheaper on to wear to work but got so scratched up and thought no it does not matter, as it was just getting in the way of his work too. He has really chunky fingers so it was a big ring too. I suggest you make him wear a cheaper on, like a titanium one until he either finds it or replaces it. I would be more annoyed if I lost my ring actually because mine is very dear to me as I designed it myself and it took a lot of time and effort to get it made to my specifications and so is more valuable to me in that sense than his ring. But I do still want him to wear one but I know it is really hard for him to wear it to work but he makes an effort when we go out together. I don't think you should lose sleep over it, you just need to make sure there is another one there on his finger as soon as possible even if it is a cheap stainless steel one.

It's just a ring. Your husband is what matters. Did you marry to be together or just to have matching rings? Believe me, if loosing a ring is the wort thing that happens, your lucky. Life will throw you many challenges,disappointments, losses and sorrows. It's important to let the small things slide off or you will be very unhappy.

It is normal that we sometimes lose things. Once I lost my purse, another time my earring, a different time my debit card, etc. My mom lost her wedding ring. It is normal for people to happen. He doesn't purposly lost it. It was by mistake. So, please understand him. I am sure that he must be very upset about loosing the ring. At this time, you should give him support and calm him saying not to worry about that. It is just an object. You can get another ring for him and get it blessed by a priest and put it on his finger. It is not a big issue.

I agree with a previous post, that it wouldn't much matter to me because it's just a ring. The important thing is what the ring symbolizes and that might be the sad thing in losing it. However, if he might have intentionally lost it and you're thinking he might be cheating or something then that's a completely different matter altogether and one you're going to have to confront him about. If not, then just buy him a new ring if it really bothers you. My husband is really prone to losing and breaking things, so when we bought his ring we got him titanium (which is far less likely to break than most bands) and we only spent $50 on it, so if he loses it it won't be such a big deal. We'll just go out and get him a new titanium band. If it really does bother you that he lost his ring and it really was an accident then you need to ask yourself why it bothers you so much to where you're this angry. There's got to be some reason because most people would just say ok it was an accident, let's get you a new one. So if there's something underneath causing that anger then you need to address it and take care of it otherwise your relationship might be in jeopardy.

Did he take it off then? Why did he lose it if he was just wearing it? Hmmmm....I do not want to spark any suspicious feelings here, but if it happened to me, I would also be very, very mad and suspicious. He must have taken it off for some reason. Find out why. You should demand that he get another ring. It is supposed to be very precious because it symbolizes your marriage. Losing such a precious object is unforgivable to me.

my initial reaction is to get mad but if i see that he feels bad he lost the ring then i wouldn't get mad at him. for me our wedding rings, though they are just objects, they are meaningful objects that symbolize our marriage and union. it is however not our marriage itself so if ever i do te mad i'd explain why too, so that my husband would understand me as well. but i will still try to calm down and just go with him to our jeweller to make another one for him. extra cost though, which is kinda irritating too, hahaha.