What kind of a friend does this?
By arabgirl28
@arabgirl28 (165)
United States
May 2, 2010 9:09pm CST
I have or had a friend who left me sit. I have to say my friend and I never did a lot of talking over the phone. When we spent time together we were alwas real close and talked about things which were close to each of us. It was not like we were strangers - we weren't. We cried on each others shoulder and helped each other out financially and when things were going bad in our personal lives. Now after many years, he has disappeared, evaporated. Not so much as I am moving or anything. I am hurt and a bit ticked off. I thought that he liked me as a friend more than just dropping me like a rock. Why would he do this?
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4 responses
@iana011michelle (42)
• Philippines
3 May 10
If he is a real friend, even though you are not together, when time comes that you will see each other again, you would still be friends.
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@collingiusti (62)
• Canada
3 May 10
Well as males get older and start getting more into life they tend to flow twords only haveing male friends. Its not something thats always controlable its just they was socity has made the male brain think. Him drifing away is nothing intentional. If you really want him back as a friend call him and talk to him. tell him how u feel.
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
12 Jun 10
Hi, arabgirl. I have no idea why this friend did this to you. Did you try to call him on the telephone? Or go by his house? You will never know what could have happened to him if you don't pay him a visit. I hope that with him disappearing on you, is not a lame excuse. I hope that it is a logical reason. Don't get upset too much until you truly find out where he ran off to. I hope that he did not just ditch you.
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
4 May 10
I don't know why he would drop you, either. He doesn't sound like he was much of a friend to me. It sounds more like he was just using you. Have you tried contacting him in some way to see why he dropped you? Such as calling him, writing him a note, etc.? If it were me, I would want to know if he got mad at me about something. I would also explain that I was hurt by his actions and would want to know why he dropped me as a friend.
